if you know your husband cheated you, what will u do?

Question

i read all their email and i saw the picture of the girl. its hurt but what will i do?

Answer 1

comfort him or else you'll always be stuck in the world of lies. speak now or forever hold your peace. Ask yourself...can you still accept a man that betrayed you?? A man that sleeps next to you every night and when he says "i love you" to your face...is he for real? or is that something he says to every other women he sleeps with. I know you been through so much but can you possibly ignore the fact that your spending the rest of your life sharing someone you once loved, and cherish??

Answer 2

I went thru this almost 2 1/2 years ago. I gave him a chance to end the relationship--which he didn't, and told him that if he wanted to salvage our marriage that we needed to go thru counseling--again he didn't want to. I actually found out about her thru his instant messenger archive and the text messages he sent her from his cell phone. When I confronted him he denied everything--denied, denied, denied; even when I actually heard him on the phone with her telling her he loved her he still denied it. We ended up seperating 3 months later--although I moved out of our bedroom the same day I found the ims & text messages. We just filed for divorce at the beginning of the month for financial reasons we hadn't done it sooner. It hurts like hell, but eventually you'll be able to forgive, and not hurt so much. The only problem I still have today is actually trusting and believing anything a man has to say.
Also one other thing--get yourself tested for std's now; I found out after we seperated that he gave me HPV & b/c of it I had a scare with cervical cancer--luckily I didn't have it, but still...get yourself checked out.

Answer 3

I confronted him, and then left him. He wanted me to accept his ridiculous excuses but I thought that if he could do that and look at me even day without feeling guilty then I was not going to hang around with someone who doesn't treat me the way I would treat them. Its respect, and some people just don't have it. If you accept the hurt and try and work things out then you will accept the disrespect that will come with it.

Answer 4

id confront him on it!!! he cant lie or deny it if you have proof!!! that does totally suck!!! id want answers. its not fair for some one to betray you like that. i feel if your gonna cheat, then just leave the person. it suck either way. if you think the relationship is worth saving then try marriage counseling or some kind of therapy. if you have a rock relationship, then it may be best to go your seperate ways.

Answer 5

DO THIS YOUR HUSBAND WILL ANSWER YR QUERRY
1.TELL HIM THAT U KNOW WHT IS GOING ON
2.IF HE WANTS TO B FORGIVEN ACCEPT IT BY OFFERING THIS CHOICE
3.TELL HIM THAT U R GOING WITH A GUY FOR A NIGHT OUT
4 SEE HOW HE REACTS AFTER U COME BACK (U CAN SPEND THE NITE WITH FRDS /FAMILY /OR MAY B ACTUALLY A BF )
HENCE HE ANSWERS YR QUERRY
GUD LUK

Answer 6

welp, I'd keep in mind that they do it again, and kick his butt out.

Gotta hold respect for yourself high, I'm betting that's not the husband you wanted when you were a teenager dreaming about life in the future!

Answer 7

Once, forgive and forget! Twice, get a Lawyer! Good luck!

Answer 8

i knew i could never trust my husband again, even after 15 years of marriage, i am on my way to divorce court.

Answer 9

confront him & let him choose...if he can't decide...then its your turn to make a decision ...but if your husband's tells you that give him sometime to finish the relationship with the girl....kick his butt out ;> because you will just be wasting your life if you keep him ;>

Answer 10

Leave him. I know it will hurt but no one deserves to be treated like that and you deserve better.