ok well...for v-day, i gave this girl in my class a really beautifully made card and i told her my feelings is in the card....anyways...she starts to notice me ....making eye contact...but she still doesnt do anything not even talk to me...NOTHING and she doesnt show much sign of interests....anyways ....recently this other girl also starts to take notice of me ...like umm she smiles when she looks at me...and shes kinda shy around me stuff like that ..so should i just move on to a girl who acctually appretiates me or should i keep trying with the girl i gave a card to.....?
another thing.....if i just move on without tell the first girl how i really felt about her or asked what she felt....would she hate me later on if she HAD feelings for me?
2007-02-24 17:10:06 · 12 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're starting to sound like a girl now, just take the easy road, dude.
2007-02-24 17:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask the girl you gave the card to if your feelings are returned -whether or not she likes you. If she don't say that she does then tell her you are sorry that she feels that way but that you wanted to know because you found out that someone else likes you and you first wanted to know if there was any chance for the two of you.
2007-02-25 01:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First girl got the card and the info. If she does nothing about it, her loss.
Look at this like fishing...you tossed the hook out one way and the fish no want. Toss the other way and you got a nibble. Go with the nibble. Sometimes it takes the nibbler to wake up the other fish and you would have 2 on the same hook.
So don't imagine something. If it ain't a fact, it ain't.
2007-02-25 01:18:10 · answer #3 · answered by ButwhatdoIno? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the girl u gave a card to hasn't done anything YET you should move on because you're not going to wait all ur life for her to be ready to open up to u and if the other girl def. has somrthin for u go for it u'll end up happy :) but do what ur heart tells u not what ppl u dont even know tell u lol
<3much love<3
2007-02-25 01:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by Daniland. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k, if you really like the first grl then dont just move on cuz yes she will hate u if she had any feelings for u in the first place, so try talking to the first grl to see how she really feels about u dont hesitate being straight forward just ask her and if u see shes not intrested then b like well i tried and move on and then she will regret not appreciating u and she will be the one to go after u but it will b too late...
2007-02-25 01:15:12 · answer #5 · answered by lucie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the girl u gave the card to if she can tell u how she feels. if nothing changes.. maybe u should move on to the other girl.. sry bout the not great answer
2007-02-25 01:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by Lyzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you have quite a pickly there ! I think you should ask the first girl straight up if she likes you or not. wouldn't hurt to ask and if she doesnt you maybe could begin a freindship with the second girl who does seem to like you and appreciate your actions. take things slow & dont rush anything.
good luck
2007-02-25 01:16:59 · answer #7 · answered by Eyelovme2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on play the field.
2007-02-25 01:13:15 · answer #8 · answered by Muff Diver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really apprecate the card she would have at least make
a point to let you know that. sound like you need to move on
to someone that apprecate you. this one sound like she does
not.. why should you care how she feel. she did not care how
you feel after you told her that you like her. i would not worry
if she care or not. her lost.
2007-02-25 01:15:27 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to her ask her what she thinks of you tell her to be honest thats all you can do. really i wouldnt move on and forget about it this soon
2007-02-25 01:14:12 · answer #10 · answered by lil brat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋