i am single and have been for a while i am not into the whole bar scene and i dont know how to meet new people im a little shy but i do warm up quickly. i dont wanna meet someone threw a friend that always seems to never work out right. im kinda leary about the whole internet dating scene iam a 22 year old female work full time and have a good head on my shoulders.
2007-02-24 17:06:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lil Brat -
To be honest, your best bet is your friends. They can serve as a buffer and screen out people who are wrong for you. If they're dropping duds on you, perhaps it's time for a little talk about what's wrong with the candidates they've been presenting.
Beyond that, make sure you're enjoying every other aspect of your life. Because when you're happy and carefree, it'll shine through and people will see that spark.
Just don't think of your singleness as a problem or something to overcome. Just make sure you're loving life and let love (or at least a good man) find you.
Good luck!
James
2007-02-24 17:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by tvjames 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay Lil Brat, start with learning to accept yourself. Learn to love yourself, to accept yourself as you are, without judgment. If you can truly love yourself, you will find others will respect you. Be the kind of person you would like to have as a friend. If you can do this, you will choose only those persons who honor you, and who you are willing to honor. Looking at a person's friends will tell you what that person thinks about themself. AS to meeting new friends, there's nothing wrong with the internet, nothing wrong with bars. But, start with asking your married friends for references. Look around at work. Check out the gym or supermarket. Some women try going to Home Depot (look for guys without wedding rings). Join a cycling club, running club, dancing group. Take some night courses at a local university or college. Join a group (or start your own) to learn a language. Good luck.
2007-02-25 01:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame you for being leery of Internet dating.Some 50 year old guy my try to hit on you thinking he can still get a 22 year old young lady.Someone like me hitting on you.By the way I am single, I have a steady job. I have ownership on two homes, one on a 5 aquas lot and the other on a half aquas lot, Over 2 dozen cars and trucks in my name. I am handy with my hands.And I have a big hart.
2007-02-25 02:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is ti be yourself. Trust your feelings. When you go out, you will know if you want to hang or not.
2007-02-25 01:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋