Ok so my girlfriend breanna who i love sooo muchu and i know she loves me just thought i liked a girl named samara. we started to argue and it lead to some other things that had to do with trust and stuff. we both love eachother very much. i just wanted her to be happy so i offered the choice of taking a break for ahwile. maybe break up and jsut let everything blow through. i thought she'd say no right away, but she ended up thinking about it and i got real scared. i didnt want her to do it. but at the same time if she picked it i would just want her to be happy and i would agree with it. well, she said i was the best boyfriend ever and the sweetest guy in the world and she wasnt gonna do it. and she promised me that she was happy with her decision. i believe her, but she told me today she partly chose it because she felt abd for me...i jst need advice on the situation please.....:(
2007-02-24 16:59:50 · 12 answers · asked by Justin B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OUCH!! I feel your pain buddy.
It's never easy when relationships get this rocky, but depending on who she really is, she'll forgive you. Thing's will work out if they're meant to work out, and life will keep moving.
Sorry if that isn't what you wanted to hear, but you really can't keep worrying about this. It's just going to hurt more and more until things get way too quaky inside and you're torn to shreds. You seem like a sensitive guy, so be sensitive to her. Treat her like a princess, and if she's right for you, things will work out.
2007-02-24 17:07:07 · answer #1 · answered by Big C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all let me say no one wants to be pitied and if she wants to stay with just for that reason it's not a good sign. I think the best thing to do is take some time apart even if it's hard on you at first. I believe that since you just had a little argument with her she may have said things that she did not mean. Though if she meant what she said , you don't want to be with someone that feels sorry for you. Hope I helped to put it in perspective for you.
2007-02-24 17:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by belizeankiss 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She probably does love you and felt bad she'd accused you of liking someone else. Talk to her about it. Ask if somehting is bothering her in your relationship, mabe ask her why she thought you liked Samara.
2007-02-24 17:05:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So she said she felt bad for you huh? If she's going to be like that, offer to take a little break from each other and let her see you hanging out (not dating, just hanging out) with another girl and maybe then she will change her mind about what she said.
2007-02-24 17:07:22 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Phyll 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it sound like both of you need to get the space to deal with what
really going on. if you love this girl,then how can you have feeling
for someone else. and if you did not want the answer you got
then why did you ask the question.. she gave you the answer that
you really want but did not want to admit it. time to take this time
to deal with issues that you both have.
2007-02-24 17:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awww how cute. This is too cute. You should just tell her to forget about the whole splitting up. Go buy roses and take her out. Tell her that she's the only girl you have eyes for, and things will get better.
2007-02-24 17:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by Girlwoman 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay, I was gonna say Relationships are all; about getting through the hardships and obsticals, but if she tells you that she also got back together with you because she felt sorry for you, then I'm sorry, you're gonna have to move on and tell her that if she felt sorry for you, she's gonna have to move on because you deserve so much better than that!!!!
2007-02-24 17:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by Katiee 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
try to forget about it. I wonder why she thought that you liked this samara, did you ever mention anything about her?? well, i haven't dated this guy yet and he mentioned someone and I didn't like that at all, that's my problem. that didn't lead to good thouth hope it didn't ruin anything. No no need to take a break just talk it out with her, you'll do just fine...
2007-02-24 17:07:27 · answer #8 · answered by joann c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Advice: Realize you are in a relationship and this simply the nature of being in one. You are always going to have struggles and often question one another and you motives motives, but at least you care enough to question them.
2007-02-24 17:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
ok well wait for ur gf to say something if she's not alking to you ask one of her closest friends, if that doesn't work then ask her over the phone or while passing eachother in the halls thats wat i do with my bf
2007-02-24 17:03:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋