i like my bff's bf and he likes me but i want him 2 choose my friend cause iwant 2 be a true friend wut should i do?
2007-02-24 16:51:37 · 15 answers · asked by puppy dog 2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let it go its not worth losing a friend
2007-02-24 16:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a serious problem here that wont go away unless you talk to someone about it. When I say someone I mean your friend. You need to come clean and let her know how you feel about him and really be apologetic. I know this might cause a fight or a scene, but just be as kind about it as you can.
Regardless of what happens between the two of you after you tell her will be a WHOLE lot better than if you steal her boyfriend from her.
And really, it's his choice too. If they break up, they break up. But talk to your friend before you see anyone she saw.
Sorry if that was blunt, but friendships and relationships are both very important and very similar. When the two collide bad things happen....
2007-02-24 17:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by Big C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the guy. Just, forget him. It's never worth losing a friend, and not many friends will take it well.
I was dating a guy for a while, had just bought the prom dress, and he dumps me. I found out after I got out af the crisis care unit a few days later that he had dumped me to go out with my friend, and for some strange reason she had expected me to be okay with this.
I still have that pretty blue dress hung in my closet, and it's been two years since it was bought. I don't think I'll ever have a second chance at a prom, as I was a sophomore gonna go with a senior, and my junior year I got sent to alternative school for some stupid sh*t and that eventually led to me dropping out. I'd be a senior now, and I hate myself for giving up prom and grad and reunions. Didn't think about that at the time, man, and I did the "smart" thing and got my GED straight away, then while waiting for results decided that I'd go back and finish school, just for the experience.
No, don't take your friend's BF. Just quit thinking about it, because nothing good will come of it. Guys come and go, but good friends are often hard to come by. But if you really have to ask about it, how good of a friend could you really be?
2007-02-24 17:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the journey that your buddy has no longer acted on her emotions then I recommend which you shrink the time the three of you're mutually. tell her that her emotions for the guy you like, mutually as comprehensible, make you uncomfortable and which you opt to stay pals along with her yet basically on a one-on-one foundation. do no longer make a scene or replace into the Drama Queen, yet do talk it along with her, be truthful approximately your emotions and opt to maintain your friendship intact. If she has acted on her emotions and made a play on your boyfriend then she isn't a chum and that i could have no longer something greater to do along with her.
2016-10-01 22:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of fish in the sea!!!! Don't go stealing your best friend's boyfriend. That is pathetic and really mean. What goes around comes around...haven't you heard justin timberlake say it!!!! LMAOO! But on a serious note, please don't lower your self to that. If you eventually date the guy, he will do the same to YOU! Don't even hesitate, it is wrong and you'll regret it.
2007-02-24 17:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by Girlwoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are you and him won't work out and losing a friend isn't worth it even if you two do stay together. Besides it's possible after he goes out wht you he'll go back to your friend so if he asks you out I recommend you say no. I'm assuming you are in early - mid teens so my answer may not actually apply to you.
2007-02-24 16:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth b4 ur friend gets some ideas and if he doesnt like his gf then he should break up with her but u shouldnt take him cuz then ur bff will think he left her for u
2007-02-24 16:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by eazybreezy103 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my best friend always liked the same guys but i never told her because she always got the guy . she is the kind of person who is not of afraid of what any one thought so she would be the first one to ask him out and it always been like that.
2007-02-24 16:59:16 · answer #8 · answered by ★See You In the Dark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him and be the better friend
as i said once before
friendship is like gold
relashionship is whatevs gold is way better
<3much love<3
2007-02-24 16:57:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think bout that guy b'coz its just a mere attraction u will overcome it soon.
Just concentrate on something else
2007-02-24 16:57:02 · answer #10 · answered by Mellesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋