i'm 13 and i'm in middle school. there's this girl that i like and i can't stop thinking about her. we're also friends, how do i tell her that i like her??
2007-02-24 16:49:57 · 12 answers · asked by cyberduelist2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First ask her if she likes anyone and if she dosen't you have a chance with her and try calling her sometimes and make her like you before you tell her that if you want to go out with her..telling her now will make the situation more diffcult beacuse she will be uncomfortable..first talk to her a lot and wait for the right moment
2007-02-24 16:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by Andeeeeee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't. It's going to end up doing more harm than good. Watch from a distance. It will pass in time.
Tell her. The worst thing you could do is harbor this feeling inside and not let her know. Even if nothing good comes from it, you can't keep such a secret.
It will ruin you. It will ruin her. It will ruin your friendship. It's the stupidest move you could ever make. A romantic partner is a pointless waste of time, anyway.
Listen, worst case scenario sucks, but there's just as good a chance that she likes you too, right? And even if not, there's an equal chance you both can just let it go and pretend it never happened.
Pretend it never happened now. You don't want to do this. This right here, this is your turning point. DON'T DO IT! Do the smart thing.
Do it, you know you have to. Do the smart thing.
Sorry for the mixed response. It's how I feel. Yes and no. You choose.
2007-02-25 00:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by A Scared Friend 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now is when I see how great it was to be young. Dammit now i'm 20 and life sucks! Anyway just kidding. Well when I was in middle school when guys came up to me and told me they liked me I thought it was freaky. Don't listen to that other guy, chicks don't dig that!!!! Like you said, she's your friend, so just ask her for her number and start talking to her. If you see she flirts with you, then you can eventually ask her out, but until then don't go bust your bubble and tell her like a dork that you like her. Ask her to go watch a movie you've been wanting to watch. Good luck!
2007-02-25 00:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by Girlwoman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not too good in that sort of thing, but I say you say something like this " Hey, (her name). I don't know how to say this, but I sort of have feelings for you." That or you humans can go to the mall together one day and to the movies the next but going slowly. But that's what I think.
2007-02-25 01:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by William B. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey I'm a 13 year old 2 and i understand it is that way with me and this guy dj, but hey try talking to her if she is one of your friends then I'm sure she wont mind talking about it if she is one of your friends and if she wont try talking to one of her friends and see what she thinks of you and if she likes you then ask her out k?
2007-02-25 00:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by Aly Girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ha! I know all about this whole teen crush stuff cause I'm 13, too!!! lol, but anyways, the guy I'm dating now just made it casual and made it cute too... like advice sorta. He would tell me about this wonderful girl that he likes, and I'd be sorta bumed out, cause I like him, and he asked me for advice on what to do, and I said "Just ask her out..." and he said "Okay.... will you go out with me?" and I totally freaked out!!! It was both mysterious and cute!!! Tr6y that out!!! It works!!!
2007-02-25 00:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by Katiee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude your in like 7th grade right. it was the same way for me. just get her alone and tell her you like her, NEVER ask her out infront of her friends, just stay calm because girls like confidence, if she does like you back then ask her to be your girlfriend.
2007-02-25 00:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by David V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she wants to watch a movie together.
2007-02-25 00:57:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. Girls love confidence.
2007-02-25 00:54:28 · answer #9 · answered by Wolfrog 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just do it, but do it in a comfortable setting and don't make it awkward.
2007-02-25 00:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by asengel86 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋