I met this guy at work who works in another department today. I met him near this compressor where we throw away cardboard boxes from our departments. He said something and then I smiled at him and he smiled back. Then, he introduced himself to me and gave me a handshake. Then he starts helping me with my cardboard boxes and I said "thank you." Then he says, "well, I was always been taught chivalry and to help a woman out. Then I say, "aww thats sweet." Then he says, "one woman told me chivalry is dead." "Then I said to her, well, you just killed it." Then we both laughed. Then I offered to help him out with his and he told me that I didnt have to. After I helped him out a bit, I left and said, "see ya" and walked away. So, I"m thinking was he trying to hit on me or just being friendly? What should I do next?
2007-02-24 16:42:01 · 9 answers · asked by Dreamyeyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should definitely talk to him again, ask him if he want to hang out just as friends that way you can get to know him a little better.\
Ps he sounds like a nice guy to know
2007-02-24 16:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by ineedya_00 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm no guy would go help an ugly girl. Thats for sure, only the nice ones do that. LOL Anyway, so yeah I think he was flirting, he could have just easily smiled said hello and leave. So you should try bumping into him again, but don't make it obvious. Ask him questions about his life and so on. Then slowly you guys will built a friendship...the rest only God Knows. Good luck!
2007-02-24 16:49:04 · answer #2 · answered by Girlwoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should quit trying to read love into someone being friendly. it sounds as though you don't connect with many people in the course of your day and are looking for any sign of an admiration. they will run when they sense your desperation. if he was hitting on you, he will again and he will make his intentions known. in the meantime, start chatting up more people of the opposite sex. you need the practice. maybe he was practicing on you. people tend to talk more to people they aren't intimidated by or aren't attracted to. just like it is easier to talk to the chubby girl because you aren't trying to hide any interest. maybe that's you, the homely girl he feels comfortable talking to because he isn't attracted to you. but not to fear, love can develop anywhere and when it does, your homeliness can disappear in his eyes. I'm just messin with ya. but you should try to chat people up more. let them wonder about you for a change.
2007-02-24 16:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was just being friendly but if you felt something there, just maybe you should keep having those friendly conversations and find out if you two could go out for drinks after work or something
2007-02-24 16:47:05 · answer #4 · answered by krazyinchicago 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think he's just being friendly, but it is too early to tell though. How about giving it a time and see whether anything else will come up?
2007-02-24 16:48:02 · answer #5 · answered by Master M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is too little to base anything on, could have just been flirting, talk to him some more to find out.
2007-02-24 16:45:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to meet up with him again. Smile and introduce yourself
2007-02-24 16:49:33 · answer #7 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like it was just friendly flirting, no real big intentions behind that, i say just continue to be friendly with him
2007-02-24 16:49:37 · answer #8 · answered by Nacho Chacho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like u r reading too much into it just think he was being nice
2007-02-24 17:20:36 · answer #9 · answered by vakere2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋