What should i do?

Question

At the end of last year a guy gave me a not reading "over the course of this year i have fallen for you" He is known for dating a lot of girls, so even tho i liked him i told him that i only wanted to be friends. But since then, we have talked long into the night about "us" and i told him that i do really like him. He started dating another girl tho, and so i got really mad and started yelling at him about how he just strung me along and never really cared, but then he said that it was just because he knew i would never let him get close enough to me. I still really like him, and him and his girlfriend just recently broke up... what should i do? Also, we often have these long talks that get really emotional, but i feel like i always bring the subject up, so now i am afraid to talk about my feelings in worry that he is getting annoyed... what should i do? Please answer both of my questions!

Answer 1

He sounds like hes trying to turn it against you like him getting with another girl is your fault. He sounds like a player, stay away!

Answer 2

I guess what u can do is just talk natural like u use to. try listen more than saying or asking. in his situation, what he need the most is an ear and someone there to accompany him. different ppl have different way of showing their care. Maybe do care but it's just that it's hardly be seen. The way a man care is so much different than a way a women do becoz man hardly can express how they feel.

Well, let it be... wait and see how time takes thing to... don't push too much in it or else it'll break. Like you says, you guys have long talk that get really emotional..- that mean that he take u as someone he can talk to and trust. so think too much.. let the time pass and see how time take things to..(naturally) : )

Answer 3

It sounds to me like your already feeling the wrong vibes from this guy and these are self protecting signs. Maybe you should be listening to yourself instead of just trying to help yourself believe something else. I think that you already know the answer to this question, and from what you've already written, he may be playing what he can. If you choose to get with him you may be another notch on the loop just be prepared for that.. Good luck

Answer 4

Honey you should just go and find someone else to be with it is as obvious as the nose on your face he is a playa and the only thing he wants to do is add you to the list of other females that have became notches on his bedpost.

Run don't walk........Run!!!!!

Answer 5

Let me drop a little hint here for ya....guys are not attracted to girls that get mad and yell at them!

Answer 6

When are you girls gonna learn you can't "change" a player simply by "taking them in". The only way to get playin' out of a playa is if he himself gets played....repeatedly.

Answer 7

well if they just broke up i wouldnt try to get in there too soon cause maybe he isnt ready and maybe you should let him come to you about this because you may be starting to come across as too pushy and persistant and also maybe a little desperate to be with him and that may lead him to think he can string you along or play with your heart and thats no good so for now just be a good friend and be there for him with his break up .


HOPE THIS HELPS AND GOOD LUCK WITH WHATEVER YOU DECIDE TO DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

He is dating so many girls.Dont get emotional for him.Just be friends.

Answer 9

if he's really "fallen" for you...he should only want you and nobody else.. dont be naive, be careful... guys are dumb.. just remember that

Answer 10

i think you should keep trying. i am having the same problem with this, and i dont think you should give up. tell him how you feel and he'll change.