im 13 years old, and my mom and my sis are my only family. her cancer has spread to her liver and she is expected to pass within less than a year. what do i do? i mean im scared? im crying right now thinking of it. i did some research on it. but is there anyway she can live longer or not die NOW? i love her and i dont want her to leave me???? please help????
2007-02-24 16:14:30 · 15 answers · asked by Gabriella R. 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
More now than ever you need to be close to your mother and sister and make a plan. Your mom may be in shock right now, but talk to her and tell her you are worried. She may have already thought it through, and you may be relieved. Lean on your friends and their parents for support where you can. Thoughts are with you.
2007-02-24 16:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try taking Cesium Chloride with Rubidium. I believe there is also one with DMSO. Its on some natural website made in 2000. I cant put websites here, so you can email me on that. Those are pretty much the two best natural remedies that you can combine to get rid of cancer. Its not a chemo therapy type of drug. Its about $75 dollars a bottle. A bottle lasts you a month. If you have heavy cancer, it will last you about 3 weeks. After taking the natural remedy, you need to eat some bananas or potatoes to replenish yourself with the potassium that you have lost. And, you can also take some Oxygen Drops with this. Cancer cannot survive if there is too much oxygen. What these oxygen drops do is help your body get more oxygen, thus killing any cancer that comes in contact with the extra oxygen. Do eat alot of greens, but I want to warn you of eating foods high in iron. These include but are not limited to broccoli, beef, red beets, etc etc. This is the natural building blocks of cancer. Without iron, it cannot grow. So, cut all iron out of your diet. Um, you should be eating more bran. So, look for bran cereals and brown rice. Thse bind with iron within the body, thus taking out everything that cancer needs. Good luck.
2007-02-25 03:49:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that your Mom is sick and this has got to be so difficult. Be with her and share all you can together.Only the Dr. can know what can be done if anything. I lost my Mom to cancer but I was older and I found that being there with her and helping her was beneficial for us both. I was there till the end and hoped that she knew it and by my being there it was easier on her. I can say that I miss her still but have no regrets that no matter how hard it was at times I was there. You may want to talk to groups that deal with cancer I did and they were my support. They are listed in the phone book or contact the American Cancer Society. Prayers for your family.
2007-02-24 16:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, I am so sorry. My heart just breaks for you. As I understand your statement your Mother is the person ill with cancer. How old is your sister? Honey, there are all sorts of support groups to help you all with this awful situation. I don't know what city you live in but I am very sure that if you ask your Mother's physician or nurse they can help you with this. You can also email me anytime and I will always listen to you. My Daddy died of cancer when I was only 19 and I had a younger sister and brother who were ages 7 and 6 and it was so very difficult for all of us and it still is at times. I also recommend that you talk to everyone you can about this as it will help you. Talk to your preacher, your teachers, your friends, and your neighbors. Again, I will always listen and be here for you. God bless and I am sending you a big hug also.
2007-02-24 16:24:35 · answer #4 · answered by Cindy Roo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a nurse and a Christian. I know this is hard for you, but try to be strong for your family member (you didn't say if it was your mom or sister). Make sure you say all you have to before the time comes, I know it's hard. Find a friend you can trust for support, you shouldn't go through this alone. I will pray for you and your family for strength. There are no words to express my concern and sadness for you at this time. I hope this heartfelt note will reach and help you find the power from within to carry on. Talk to someone about your feelings or write a journal everyday about your feelings, it will help you cope.
2007-02-24 16:26:57 · answer #5 · answered by nursey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun I wish I could tell you that your mom will be ok, but I cant. Just remeber that your mom loves you and I am sure that she would love to stay with you and raise you. But I think that the Lord must need her in heaven for some reason. When I lost my grandmother I felt like you, but I realized that Jesus needed her too and I will see her again some day. I am so sorry for all of what you are going through.
2007-02-24 16:21:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie - I know it is hard. And remeber - she does not want to leave you either. This is going to be a difficult time for you and your sister, is she older or younger? The only advice I can give you is maybe you should seek some counsling with your sis and you mom too if she is up to it. It is going to be very hard.
If you need to talk EMAIL me at kidzincrisis@hotmail.com
2007-02-24 16:23:22 · answer #7 · answered by Carina M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In circumstances in which the tumor has spread outside of the stomach, cure is not possible and treatment is directed toward improvement of symptoms.
The following organizations are good resources for information on gastrointestinal disorders:
International Foundation for Functional Gastrointestinal Disorders (IFFGD) PO Box 170864 Milwaukee, WI 53217-8076 414-964-1799 www.iffgd.orgAmerican College of Gastroenterology PO Box 342260 Bethesda, MD 20827-2260 301-263-900 www.acg.gi.org Provides information, support groups, recipes, product information, reference articles.
The following organizations are good resources for information on cancer:
* American Cancer Society - www.cancer.org
* National Cancer Institute - www.cancer.gov
I am extremely sorry for the physical and mental conditions of your mom. I pray for her health.
Please see the web pages for more details on Stomach cancer.
2007-02-24 16:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by gangadharan nair 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
>>> I guess your mom's illness is on its malignant case already. What should you do? We can't stop our loved ones dying, even if we want to. I do sympatize with you but the fact of the matter is the time is running out for you and your mother being together. the best thing you can do is make her feel that she is special and that you relly love her! Do whatever she wants, obey her. Spend quality time with her! make her smile and happy in her life's last days.. If she sees you cry she'll be sad to and might lead to her depression. Crying can do nothing but the power of LOVE and PRAYER may do wonders gabriela..
>> dont worry you and your mom will be on my prayers! have faith in God!! Cherish the moments you're with you're loving mother! GODBLESS>.
2007-02-24 16:26:26 · answer #9 · answered by ApCyuMz_05 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow Gabriella, you are in a tough time. You and your sister have to talk to your mom's doctor so they can give her high treatments, like chemotherapy and other treatments so she can live longer. It all depends how aggresive the cancer is. Good luck to all of you.
2007-02-24 16:24:47 · answer #10 · answered by Angelroxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋