virgin,no girlfriend/boyfriend = suicide?

Question

is it true that the majority of people in the U.S. that seem to still be a virgin and have no girlfriend or boyfriend, end up really taking it out on themselves by slashing there wrists?..is this really true?..cause to me it sounds really hard to do that, i am at that stage, and i dont think im going to commit suicide, i got over my depression and all that and started to say to myself "life is life, i am wolf..not a sheep,i will get a gf, not too soon"

Answer 1

You should be proud of the fact that you are still a virgin.....Not many people can say that anymore~!

Answer 2

Lots of people who never had a girlfriend or boyfriend in high school find someone at college. If you are already in college then try to join in some activities. Only join a club or group that is concentrating on some subject you really like. If chess is your game then the Chess Club would be good and you may meet a girl who also likes chess. If sports well the same way. In reality very few people never get married and really to do that well you have to get a girlfriend or boyfriend first. So the odds are with you.

Answer 3

Dude, everyone finds someone eventually. The problem is that you are dwelling too much on not having a gf/bf and being a virgin. This is probably hurting your game. So just work on making some $$$, and get involved with activities or jobs that will bring you in contact with ladies. Also dont try too hard, just be yourself. There is someone for everyone believe me.

Plus, certainly do not kill your self. Not getting laid is not bad. When you have a gf you will wish you were single again. Killing yourself is terrible for you of course, but is also a selfish thing to do. I know families of people that killed themselves, and it is really the worst thing someone can do to people. the pain is unimaginable.

Answer 4

Man I am right there with you. I don't know how old you are but I am in my twentys to damn old to be a virgin with no prospects. I had oppertunitys back in the day but I was to moral now I feel like I wasted my life up to this point even though everything else is perfect. To make things worse I see how big of sluts my friends that are girls can be and it deppresses me more. But don't commit suicide I thought about it to instead do what I'm doing and work on the problem go out more try to talk to girls. Dress better get in better shape and hope it works. There are others like us out there so just remember that.

Answer 5

For you, I will put myself on the line. Suicide is never an option.
This is one of those things that you don't realize until it's to late,
like alot of things we learn in life. However, it would be to late
for you to know this if that's what you intend to do. Never ever
ever even let your mind go there. What ever it takes do it.
When your younger, your not old enough to understand how
some things in life work. You know, life is a gift. I am 41.

I have had moments like your and so have many people. The
feeling of being rejected makes you feel so unwanted and so
unworthy. But that's not the case at all. Now promise yourself
that no matter what you will never think about hurting yourself.

No matter what age you are, we all deal with the opposite sex
in ways that often make us feel down, and every one gets
rejected from time to time. The trick is not to focus on it.

Being a virgin is not a bad thing, even if you have heard that a
million times. I'm not going to lie to you. Sex can be a great
thing with the right person, but it took me many years almost
thirty five, before I found the right person. I have had many
boyfrinds and been married, but finding the right person is not
the same thing. You might find someone you really like and
even fall in love but it's been my experience that we often fall
in love with the wrong people. It's usually because we don't
have the confidence in ourselves to admit it.

Waiting is not a bad thing. You will find someone, but do you
want someone just for sex, so you can say your not a virgin
any more, or do you want someone you can talk to about any
thing, some one who is there for you when you had a bad day,
and someone who makes you laugh, and someone who is
like a best friend. Those are the things that matter. Not sex.
Sex eventually comes with those things but don't be in such
a hurry. There's lots to enjoy in life and I also have one more
thing to tell you.

A friend of our committed suicide last year. He left behind
people who loved him so much. He is never forgotten but all
we think about is how much he is missing out on. If we only
knew how he felt, we would of tried to help. Having sex does
not define us. Being strong and senseable does.

I know you'll do the right thing, and someone will come along,
but stop thinking about it, cause in the mean time, life does go
on. The hardest thing in life sometimes is admitting the truth
to ourselves. Think about things you can do to make you feel
better and I wish you all the best.

Answer 6

People that commit suicide usually have no good reason for doing it. Even if their life is at an all time low, it can only get better. You should be talking to someone real about this (not over the computer) And you will catch your fish one day and realize what a horrible idea suicide was.

Answer 7

dude in other wards u are saying u cant live your life without opposite sex?c'mon now there is alot to life than girls am not saying is a not a priority though,is just the way u put the question,u make it sound like is a must-do, there are alot of people out there just like u and i believe the fact that everything that happens ,happens for a reason nothing is ever a coincidence and u should believe in the fact too ok,everything is gon fine

Answer 8

That's the stupidest thing I've heard.
Suicide has nothing to do with being a virgin (nutso)
The suicide rate is high but it usually attributed to drugs. lack of money and having no way out.
Sort of a depression but more of a last resort I have no way out but....
The number of people that slash there wrists as a result of not having a B/F or G?F ( a breakup) is extremely nil.

Answer 9

After a while pretty much yes Ids say as it hurts too much... thats due to head in the sand parents who think people have no feelings.

Or the guys end up heavily into porn and then hookers as thats the best they can get.


Or odd one night stands as thats the best they can get.


Its just you have not built up enough rejectiojn, hurt, pain and unpopularity as people often stop being your friend or respecting you if you cant get a girl/boyfriend as thats how you are judged.

If nobody else wants you why should they?

And girls above mid teens dont want to be with needy inexperienced guys...


you just have not had sufficient knock backs and loss of good friends as you happend to fancy them

Answer 10

Depression is just lazyness. If someone doesn't have a gf, they should get out the house and go to a club or bar. There's millions of girls that want to get to know you. You just gotta have game. Game is something you learn not something you're born with. Remember that. People often think that just because they don't have a gf now, they are never going to have one. If you really wanted a gf you would have one. The problem is that you don't want one and you feel the pressure from a society that tells you you have to have one at a certain age.

Answer 11

No, it does not mean suicide. I am a 21-year old virgin who has never had a bf. I am not desperate, and I just pray to God that someday he will send me the right guy. I am very patient, and sooner or later I will meet the right guy. Just hang in there, get busy with other things. Don't think about it too much because when you least expect it, she will appear ;)