I liked him for a long time and he finally asked me out...the problem is this girl (a good friend of his ex) Hates me! Everytime time we hug or sit by eachother at lunch she starts talking crap to my face and tells him "Why are u going out with her?" and "Get her out of here!" I am scared things aren't going to work out cuz of this...WHAT SHOULD I DO!
2007-02-24 15:46:07 · 22 answers · asked by Chy M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get in her face and tell her to shut her hole.
If she doesn't, put the smack down on her
2007-02-24 15:50:35 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like having superman to the rescue here would be a good time lol
Oh right let be serious, Ahem, Laugh it off. I know your thinking "Yeah right this dude who said this is crazy." No Im not actually well at least not today lol. Seriously It'll show her that your not effected by her negative critisism. Tell him and have a laugh with it Whats with that Crazy chick did she forget to take her meds or what? then think What a loser.
When you see her doing this laugh even if you cant manage a real laugh try to make a fake laugh look real show that your not effected! Lets see how suprised she is to see this. Oh yeah she'll be like WTF? ..? ..? But let her think this I bet she'll eventually stop. Give it a try sometimes the most unlikely advice ends up working so you dont have anything to lost
2007-02-24 15:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by Sephiroth~The One Winged Angel~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok girl im 13 and girls like that will always be in your life (trust me) that girl is just jealous and wants him and if anyone else has him but her she'll make h-e-l-l break lose LOL so dont let her know your intimidated and talk to him about it tell him your not happy wiht her talking krap about you all the time, and most of all enjoy having a bf and screw them haters! lol
much love <3<3 if he truly likes you he'll do somethin about it but dont be soo sure cuz guys our age are still imature, and shy to speak up but give it time and show her that you are going to have hom wether she likes it or not <3
2007-02-24 15:51:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is the one who needs to stand up to this girl, and tell her to mind her own business, because she's obviously crusing for him to get back together with her friend.
It's sort of a test, to see how he's going to handle breaking all the ties of his old relationship. If he won't stand up to her, just walk away -- it could very well mean that he secretly agrees with the idea of his ex, and just enjoys the drama of having another girlfriend for a while.
2007-02-24 15:50:45 · answer #4 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her off, or beat the crap out of her. Tell her to go buy a life on ebay, and get away from your life. It's not going to work if you don't take some action about it.
2007-02-24 16:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by Summerbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey this is coming from a 15 year old...
just don't worry, ok? life isn't about what other people want for you, what other people force you to do. if you like this guy, and he likes you back, then go for it...you never know what good could happen, you know? dont worry about your ex, just let him talk away - as long as you can put him out of your mind and not let him interfere then its ok. it's your life...you gotta do what you gotta do, and if you follow your heart and just love, everything will work out fine. believe me.
2007-02-24 15:50:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...i am 13 and i think i might have an idea of what u can do...
If she says something rude and horrible to ur face u need to say something back. u need to tell her to step off and get out of your face. And if your boyfriend hasn't been standing up for you maybe he's not the right guy...I know that ur probally thinking this girl is crazy...but really, If someone says something rude to me and my B.f. is right there, he will stand up for me and say something back, if ur bf. doesn't do that then maybe hes not the guy you should like.
2007-02-24 17:28:13 · answer #7 · answered by Tay Tay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! don't break up with your boyfriend just because some chic has no life and no boyfriend so she has to talk crap about you. i hate people like that. i hope you don't sit with her at lunch because if you do you should stop being friends with that brat. stand up to her, tell her to get over herself, stop stalking YOUR boyfriend, and if she keeps talking crap to your face, beat the crap out of her! don't let people like that ruin your relationship.
2007-02-24 15:53:54 · answer #8 · answered by Silent Rumours 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that girl has issues. dont let her ruin anything. does your boyfriend do anyhtign about it? if he doesnt then thats not what a true bf would do. talk to him about it and how it makes you feel. he should understand and tell his friend to lay off. he obviously likes you and some girl cant talk him out of having feelings for you.
2007-02-24 15:50:03 · answer #9 · answered by beatles luver 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea lol thats happened to me.
well if i were you ide b*tch slap her, lol no jk but if shes talkin sh*t to u and your bf's face, your boyfriend should stand up for you, im 14, i know theres alot of drama, trust me im goin through alot of drama right now. i dont want to get you in trouble by tellin you to fight lol, but dont take sh*t from anyone. shes just jealous cause yall are probably the hottest couple in school =]
2007-02-24 15:53:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 13 uhhh i wouldnt worry about like u if u like him u dont let her get in the way that would be messed up just brush it off he asked u out so apperently he likes so he dont care either apparently u know so just stay with him is my opiniom
2007-02-24 15:54:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋