i have known this guy since i was a little girl, but im still nervous and jumpy around him and i want to ask him out how do i? Help please!!!!!!!!
2007-02-24 15:43:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
justt tell him how u feel its best to be straightt up..
best of luck! my wishes to ya!.
2007-02-24 15:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say you are "still nervous and jumpy" around him do you mean that you have been all this time or is this just since you realized that you are attracted to him?
If the former, it may mean that you subconciously know that there is something wrong with him.
If its the latter, it is normal.
Deep breaths! Play some scenerios in your mind such as: what is the worst that can happen if you ask him out? Think of the hurtful things first, then stretch out and twist it into comedy (as though you were seeing a sitcom on TV). Be prepared. Both the best and worst can happen.
Make sure that you have something in mind to do just in case he says that yes, he's like to go out with you. Something casual -- coffee? A movie? A group event encompassing an activity or interest you both enjoy?
Good luck and good for you for reaching out.
2007-02-24 23:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by GypsyCatt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a dilemma. How old are you? How old is he? Maybe he is still looking at you like you are a little girl. If both of you are old enough then you need to get his attention and ask him out for maybe a coffee or even outing with mutual friends. If he does not respond to this then he is not good enough for you. Don't give yourself too easy because at the end of the day he will have no respect for you. Remember you are special and not a piece of trash.
Good luck but don't despair if it doesn't work out. Life is too short. Play it cool.
2007-02-24 23:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by wooble1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, what I've learned about this is that you should learn more about him... Also, when you ask him out, use a cute way to do it.. thats how i got my boyfriend... and I did it over text messaging! All I said was "Can you help me on some advice" and hed say "what?" and I say "I really like this guy, so what should I do?" and he said :"ask him out... who is it?" and I said "You..." and thats all it took for me!!! but get to know him first!! thats key in a good relationship and it will reduce the jumpiness in you!!!
2007-02-24 23:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by Katiee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax.
Breathing exercises can help.
Why be nervous it's not like you don't know him.
Think of him as if you were talkng to a brother or cousin.
2007-02-24 23:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with him. next time u see him, smile and flirt with him a little. and then talk to him about movies or sumthing, ask if he has seen one, and then say, hey do u want to go on a date and see that one? good luck!
2007-02-24 23:48:48 · answer #6 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is hard bcoz if u guys r friends and he turns u down
it could ruin a friendship
2007-02-24 23:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by S*M*I*L*E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋