So i have been in love with my best friend A for about 8 months now... and about 3 weeks i confessed my love for her and she old me that she has only seen me as just a friend. and that hurt allot. And ever since then even though we said that things would be okay we havnt been the same. i feel like our friendship grew stronger that night but now its falling apart... she just got out of a long relationship with another girl! and really miss the old her... before she was bi... she was my best friend...my other half... the girl i fell in love with and now she has changed allot... and i have been trying to move on but its really hard... well 3 days ago and old friend of mine,S came into town that i havnt seen in years and she is amazing and we have such a good time together and she likes me...... but i still cant A off my mind... should i try to move on and try to reconsile my friendship with A and start a relationship with S? or say no to S and keep trying with A?
2007-02-24 15:41:49 · 6 answers · asked by Unrated 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on
2007-02-24 15:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on from A but don't start anything new with S because subconsciously, you could only be trying to fulfill the feelings you wanted but didn't get from A by being with S - which is unfair to both you and S. Make sure you're totally over A before you start anything new with S or anyone.
In the meantime, only be friends with S and if she gives any strong hints that you can't ignore, just tell her what you told us - but don't go on and on about A, that would be bad, of course.
2007-02-24 23:49:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an old, old story. It is usually "can't we be just friends". It cuts like a knife. Many people have felt this cut. Back off a bit and let the friendship just ride, do not ignore but do not forget. Women have been known to change their minds.
2007-02-24 23:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would try to fix your friendship with A but thats all! If you like S then try it out. u might find that u will fall in love with S. you will never know unless u try. as far as A is concerned she needs time to get over her love and sometimes having them as a friend is better then not having them in you life at all.
2007-02-24 23:46:13 · answer #4 · answered by Jamie F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2007-02-24 23:45:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah move on
2007-02-24 23:47:26 · answer #6 · answered by LuCKyNUmBeRShaDY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋