There is a girl in my school, I really like her, and she is a hard girl, because she is extra-hot and every single guy hits on her! But somehow I found her E-mail address!!! And she is taking some online classes in the school; I mean she is always online during 2nd and 3rd period.
So 3 days ago, for the first time I emailed her and we start emailing to each other like chatting at that moment. And I was telling her lies, that I want to take some online courses too and I was asking for information.
So she gave me some information and I thanked her and that’s it!!! Till today!!
So my question is, how should I approach her next time by emailing her. Should I still ask some question about the online course? If I should, what should I say? And what else should I ask her? I really want to take it easy on first!!!
I appreciate it in advance for your help!!!
2007-02-24 15:39:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What ever comes to mind and will work for you,
Good Luck
2007-02-24 15:42:55 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like you're interested in some on line courses that she is taking, and then maybe even ask her if she can actually sit down with you and explain it step by step or something. Just find a way that you and her can get together, but at first to discuss on line courses.. and then see where things go on from there. If she seems flirty while being helpful, then you know to make your next move, such as flirting back, start asking her about herself, like what she likes to do and what not. Then you can start emailing her for personal convos rather than school work, and things should go smooth by then.
Good luck.
2007-02-24 15:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by Loves It<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, Quit the Lying. It will get you nowhere. Next time you email her, just ask her something simple, like "How've you been?" or some jazz like that. Just continue on from there. You'll do fine, and if She's not interested, then just move on. Some good advice, Don't Fall In Love. It only leads to pain and misery. If you DO end up dating her, then feel free to fall in love, but don't say I didn't warn you. Just remember to take it slow and easy, and try to win her friendship. Try talking to her in the brief periods that you see her. But like I said, don't waste too much time, the last thing the world needs is another heartbroken person. Best of Luck to you!!!
2007-02-24 15:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by mtoutlaw_87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her thank-you for all the information about taking an online class, but if you aren't really interested then just say that you've looked it over and you don't really think you want to do that right now. Then you could ask her if she prefers stuff online or in class, and then go into more things she likes about school stuff etc. Eventually you will get the ball rolling. A guy I know used to play this game called the question game. He would ask a question and you'd have to answer but you could ask any question you wanted back and they'd have to answer. so you could do something kind of like that, just to get you talking about stuff until you find something you both like or have in common.
2007-02-24 15:47:38 · answer #4 · answered by Ask&Receive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop talking about online courses. You have no interest in them (so you won't have much to talk about afterwards), you're lying (how is she supposed to react when she finds out you haven't taken any courses?), and she'll assume your relationship is strictly an acquaintance. I suggest turning the conversation up a notch. Start asking her about herself...but be subtle. Like, maybe ask how her online courses are, what she wants to do with the classes she's taking...blah blah. People like someone to be interested. Gradually you'll get more personal, and BOOM a more intimate relationship will form.
Good luck
2007-02-24 15:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful. She is probably someone who gets lots of attention. I do no know what "hard" means in this case. It usually means someone who lives kind of fast and loose. Or she may be sick of being hit on. So play it cool and wait to see if your smooth, gentle approach is interesting to her. If not then nothing lost.
2007-02-24 15:41:21 · answer #6 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg dont freakin start lying to her from the begining!!!! dont continue the talk about the course unless u really want to. ask her if she saw that awesome show last night. or if she got hw from so and so. or if she has a big project due soon....... u could ask her if she has heard some fav song of urs.................. just dont start lying to her from the begining, thats really bad!
2007-02-24 15:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by book worm 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋