how do you deal withn the pain of him dumping you?

Question

"he" broke up with me but i cant get over him and its hurting my heart

Answer 1

awww im srry sweety...trust me ive been there a couple of times and its not easy but woth your friends' support, and/or your familie's support (and a lot of sweets)lol you'll get over it and laugh about what a jerk he was and what hes missing out on.
<3<3<3<3<3<3luv ya and us girls we have to stick togetha and all those losers can wait in line LOL

Answer 2

I am so sorry you are going through this. I know how real the pain must be. As hard as it is to do, get busy. Go out with friends, immerse yourself in work, volunteer, anything to stay as busy as you can. Over time, the pain will ease and eventually go away. Good Luck and take care of yourself. Remember there a lot of other guys out there just waiting to meet you. Don't hide out!

Answer 3

first stop blaming yourself, this was his doing, it will hurt, he was a big part of your life, u loved the man. it will take time, maybe therapy. u will never forget him, and it may always a wound, but it will get easier as soon as u begin to accept it, and stop thinking he is going to come back. we have no control over the other, we can't stop them, or make them see because they probably have met someone else, and it will take time to heal when someone leaves us, and we loved them. hearts do break, it is a really hard thing to have to give up someone we loved, and will always love. but as time goes on it does get much easier. got to get a new life, after u have healed some, and try to distance yourself from him.

Answer 4

I'm sorry that happened. I believe all things that are meant to be are meant to be. If you think about it, I'm sure you'll come to realize that he was not meant for you. The fact that he would not want to date someone as great as you are means there must have been something wrong with him...there will be a guy who will be better who'll come along and will be truly in love with you. Trust in time it will happen.

Answer 5

omg, i kno how you feel,it sux hard, just gotta bear with it, over time it'll heal, thats wut worked for me, just drop things at a time, ur song, gifts, memories, move on some, just drop little things over time, and then itll get better n u'll be ok, my heartbreak was october or november likeof last year, and i am as of now 95% over him, and about to go out with some1 veryyyy soon, so, u'll b ok, time heals almost like everything.ne guy who dumps a girl n hurts u like that, isent worth it and is totally stupid. might not think that now, but u prob. will sometime.

Answer 6

sit down.get a LARGE TUB OF ICE CREAM, cry it out.after wards, talk to a friend, let all your feelings out to the friend. it will help you get over hm and get on with your life.

Also, if your sad, your right side of the brain starts acting up. try thinking of a math problem. That makes your left side of the brain active and you forget most of your sadness. feel happy. forget about him, if he broke up with you, leave his picture and everything about him behind.
oh, and listen and watch the music video for "smile" by lily allen.
and you'll probably get inspiration from it.... { :)(: }

Answer 7

Well what will probably help you out is a night out with your friends. Your friends will help you get your mind off of him and help you recover sooner. Talk to them, and just let loose and have fun.... you'll forget about him and have new things on your mind in no time. I'm really sorry- i know how you feel! I am still not over my "him", but my friends have REALLY helped me out, just by hanging out with me. Keep yourself occupied with other things, and avoid him.... try not to think about him...
Good Luck!


btw, I agree with Clarisse.... watch Lily Allen's music video....

Answer 8

ii noe its hardd too just end a realtionship.. itss probb been a whillee since hes been gone.. and things r changing .. ur missing him? .. u feel that u can't live w/o him? eventuallyyy the pain will go away and u will be strong enoughh too move on.. all u need to do is realize that he is gone.. and there is nothing that you can do. its going to be hard yes, as we all noe.. almost everything is going to remind you of him.. butt just rember... its going to get better.. it will be eaiseRR iff uu try not to hold on to what you used to have... andd life will carry on =] one day u will fine the man of ur dreams and willl be happi .. trust me.

best of luck. my wishes to you.

Answer 9

u will be ok. life does go on. u just need to take some time to yourself. go out with friends and have fun dont let him see you down and out. some times it takes longer to get over some one but you do. i know because it took me a long time to get over my ex but im happy and married to a wonderful man now. so just hang in there and keep smiling things will get better!!!

Answer 10

your friends are there for a reason! Use them. Everytime you get upset again about it, call one of them. Go out shopping. Or spend a little bit by yourself doing what you like to do. Then think...Hmmm i can so enjoy this better without that jerk.