Ok so my friend dates this guy *Chad* and they broke up three times.
During there second break up i told *Chad* i had feelings for him (i still do) and my friend *Anne* told me to ask him out but i said no. He asked me out a couple of times but i always said no *Anne* Still likes you. so i kimda twisted words and lied and got them back together. i dont know wht i did it but now .....hmmm*sighs* i have strong feelings and i know he still has feelings for me cuz of the way he talks and acts and flirts with me. *Anne* doesn't say anything about it but what should i do?
2007-02-24 15:31:13 · 8 answers · asked by mrscuttibooty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
True he dates her and flirts with me and its also true i value her friendship more But *Chad* and my brother are best friends and on one of there convos i heard the only 2 reasons he said yes to going back out with her are because he liked her a little and he didn't want to be dateless on valentines day
2007-02-24 15:44:08 · update #1
Do you value Annie's friendship? A friend doesn't do this to a friend. What would you do if the situation was reverse and she went after YOUR boyfriend!? You got them back together so leave them alone. If you 'got' him, would you trust him? He's dating Annie and flirting with you...how lousy! You know what they say: There's more fish in the sea.
2007-02-24 15:38:40 · answer #1 · answered by DPL06351 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a dangerous situation. These love triangles just never work out well, someone always ends up hurt. If I were you I'd stay as far away from Chad as possible. Men come and go but friendships are much more lasting. Anne will likely be around in your life a lot longer than this Chad fellow. Good luck, these are not easy situations.
2007-02-24 23:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by The OTHER Boelyn Chic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they break up again, ask Anne if it would upset her if you dated Chad. Make sure she doesn't think he has already ask you out or she might think you are part of their problem. I certainly do not think you should lie about her feeling to him again!
2007-02-24 23:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be completely honest with everyone. Tell both of them how you feel and everything will either turn out for the best or for the worst. It's always a risk when it comes to this kinda stuff.
2007-02-24 23:35:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait for them to break up, its the only way to not hurt anything or loose nething, so u wont loose a friend and get hurt by a guy or something, and it will all not b worth it in the end, but when they do break up, make ur friend aware of ur feelings for him and that ud like to go out with him, so u wont loose her as a friend either. good luck! sry, but it is like easier n safer to just wait for them...=)
2007-02-24 23:37:16 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
isn't your friend more important to you cause that is what you sound like.
don't break them up just wait and maybe she will get over him and you can have a relationship after they are through.
I would stay away from him so there is no possibility of hurting your friend because it sounds like you are friends.
remember you would loose your friendship over this
2007-02-24 23:38:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk things out when you guys are all together and maybe you guys can have a3
2007-02-24 23:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out
2007-02-24 23:34:41 · answer #8 · answered by LuCKyNUmBeRShaDY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋