Okay, I am dating this guy and he never talks to me, not even during school. I text him, and he talks to me, telling me how much he loves me and stuff like that, but I don't think he's comfortable dating me... I don't know because I haven't been dating him that long, but sometimes it doesn't feel right.. Should I dump him? be honest, but don't be stupid and rude, please!
2007-02-24 15:24:35 · 10 answers · asked by Katiee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it doesn't feel right, something's probably wrong. Talk to him about how you feel. Let him know that it's awkward for you to get such mixed messages and see what he says. If he's only nice in private, he's not really for you.
2007-02-24 15:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this guy is more comfortable with a virtual girlfriend; one that he can view at a distance. He might be emotionally young and not ready for a real physical relationship (but likes the idea). He probably likes you very much but is not sure of himself. It sounds like he really needs a friend. I wouldn't "dump" him unless you find him emotionally and physically fooling around with someone else. Just let him know how you feel and ask him what is wrong; something is. You can feel it and you need him to be honest with you.
Honesty sometimes hurts but is better than lies.
Good luck to you.
2007-02-24 23:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by GypsyCatt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is strange! He does not speak to you in school. Get over him and meet someone who will not be ashamed to be seen with you. Guy's are a dime a dozen, meet someone who is into you and only you! Don't settle for less.
If you have to figure out this guy...then he is not the one for you! Slowly break away from him and give yourself time to become involved with someone else who is more worthy of you..I believe the next guy will treat you much better.
2007-02-24 23:32:06 · answer #3 · answered by cherrypopsickle2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. im not trying to be mean whatsoever. i just think you should know. ok. well usually when a guy doesnt talk to you at all or anything hes probably embaraced to be going out with you. if i were you i would dump him. you deserve much better than that.
hope i helped.
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2007-02-24 23:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by Hannah A 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he is terribly shy or nervous or forgets how to talk when you are around! DONT THINK-just talk to him. he cannot read your mind. let him know what you want and expect then, ask him what he wants and expects. openess and honesty go a long way!
2007-02-24 23:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by mom is a freak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either confront him about it; which he will probably claim that its nothing that he is "pre-occupied" at school. But honestly hun, save your dignity and get out now. You deserve someone way better than someone who will not ignore you in public. Get out ASAP thats all i say before you get hurt
2007-02-24 23:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like he;s using you.dump him and find someone that will care for you and talk to you..hugs
2007-02-24 23:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by TJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his ***, if he's not going to show his love for you publicly...he's not worth it.
2007-02-24 23:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by redpinkredx3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don t bother it
2007-02-24 23:29:00 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
give it time he willcome around,...
2007-02-24 23:37:01 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋