actually the boy always used 2 tease me.that"s y i cried one day n sir scolded him.now he is vry afraid of me.because all da boys r cause i beat whomever i get(esp boys)if the do bad things.so whenever i see that boy i feel like beating him.how do i stop my anger againgst anyone?????????????
2007-02-24 15:16:57 · 14 answers · asked by Coolgurl 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Performing Arts
Ha Ha.. Lols and Lols...
U are a mean girl beating innocent boys..that's not so cool
Why Do U want to get rid of that fella... Is he plotting behind your back and creating an army of boys so then can throw you over power ?????
Or may be U like the Guts of that Boy and u are afraid that u might change your heart against this boy and fell in love with him.
2007-02-25 11:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by ๑۩۞۩๑ BrainWires ๑۩۞۩๑ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To stop your anger against anyone, first look inside of you. Ask yourself ,"Why am I so angry and what for?" Most times anger comes from being hurt and not getting over the issue. You probably have buried something deep . Maybe you should try confronting him and asking him and the others why they tease you. Maybe they have misjudged you or maybe on the outside you seem tough but underneath it all, you are just trying to fit in and it comes out in a negative way. Try loving everything about you, even the things that you think other people don't like and then you would be able to look at the world a little less differently. You would find out that there are many people just like you who have fears and inhibitions. You can't get rid of him but you could try and get rid of your pain that is causing this anger and ultimately get rid of all negativity. You are a creative person so try channelling your negativity into something positive in your art.
2007-02-24 23:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by dawn c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Taking charge of yourself
Taking charge of yourself involves putting to rest some very prevalent myths. You’ve probably grown up believing that you can’t control your own emotions, that they are things that just happen to you.
Like all emotions anger is a result of thinking. Anger is usually a result of wishing the world and the people in it were different.
Simply put, you believe that things or people make you unhappy, but this is not accurate. You make yourself unhappy because of the thoughts that you have about the people or the events in your life. It’s not people or events that make you unhappy, it’s what you choose to think about those persons or events. You alone control what enters into your head as a thought. If you don’t believe this, just answer this question, “ If you don’t control your thoughts who does?”
You have the power to think whatever you choose to let into your head If something just “pops” into your head you choose to put it there, though you may not know why, you still have the power to make it go away. Your feelings come from your thoughts. You can’t have a feeling without first having a thought.
If you can control your thoughts then you can control your anger.
When you are in charge of your emotions then you don’t have to choose self-defeating reactions. Once you learn that you choose to feel you will be on your way to personal freedom.
Dr. Wayne W. Dyer
Your Erroneous Zones
2007-02-24 23:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by ThinkaboutThis 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i mean you might as well become a recluse and live at home only wiht a dog if you cant help beating people, i mean wherever you go there are going to be jerks so chill out, count to ten or just never talk to another person again! :-)
2007-02-25 16:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by Chels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to control your emotions. It's hard, there are boys whom I don't like either. Maybe try this: count to ten and then walk away from the boys who tease you.
2007-02-24 23:30:31 · answer #5 · answered by Rosie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try biting your lip and running to a place where no one can see or hear you and scream as loud as u can until all that anger is gone or try breathing in, making fists and counting to ten releasing a finger each time and release your breath...this always works for me
2007-02-25 12:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by Audrey♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, you can't just get rid of someone...wouldn't that mean like killing him?
How do stop your anger? Maybe you're going through stress? Or maybe you need anger management? Or maybe it just might be who you are. Everyone's different.
2007-02-24 23:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by huffypuffle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out maybe he likes you and if not he'll think your weird and stop bothering youP.S.ask him out in a weird way to add to the effect
2007-02-24 23:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything, there is no need to. This too shall pass. We only have one life, thank god.
2007-02-25 15:17:51 · answer #9 · answered by fredrick z 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol PWNT! He made you cry lulz. Let it go, show him that you don't really care and he should stop.
2007-02-25 01:44:20 · answer #10 · answered by ¥¥Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋