How do iI ask A girl out?

Question

I am really shy and dont know what to say or do.

Answer 1

Try to strike up a conversation. If you don't really know this girl, try to develop some sort of relationship. Hold open the door for her. Smile. See if you have similar interests. Then, after you've established some grounds, ask. It'll be hard, but try to be straight forward, don't beat around the bush too much.

If you want to skip that part, then just walk up say hi, and introduce yourself. Try to get the conversation on the track that will lead up to the pressing question. (ex. Movie: Discuss a film they like then ask if they would like to go see it sometime)

But always be straightforward so you get a straight answer.

If you never try, you just won't know. But try to be confident and clear.

Answer 2

I am a girl myself, so I know. The first thing you can do is get to know her. Talk to her, and make sure she knows who you are. Be careful though, you never want her to think of you as a 'good friend' because things will go down hill from there. After you get to know her, make sure she isn't already with someone. Nothing is worse then getting asked out by a guy when you're already dating. If she is dating, try to get to know the guy she likes to get some tips. If she's not, ask her before she is.

Answer 3

this sucks because there limited ways to do this. ask her yourself. literally walk up to her. (not recomended) or have a friend ask the girl out. (it depends how old you are) theres a difference you being 12 or 30. lol. word of advice: if you ever flatter her say that she if beautiful instead of hot. and don't be shy. if she don't like you thats her lose not yours. think about it this way: by asking someone out it proves that you are not gay. lol
remember asking her to her face could be overwhelming and emabassing for both of you so lay off on that. i would have a friend do the asking. as one dude once said you have to ride it out before asking. get to know her first.

Answer 4

Colin, if she is really the girl of your dreams, I am sure you are willing to take the risk of asking her out. ;) You could start giving her hints, for example, start talking to her more often. Then, when you feel the time is right, ask her the classical question: "Would you like to go out with me?" I am not being optimistic that she will say yes, and neither should you. You have to expect the best and the worst that could happen.

Good luck!

Answer 5

just walk up to her and aske her whats up and how her day has gone so far and then after she answers that question you just ask her if she want to chill out with you a specific day which ever day you want and make sure you try to be very confident because women like confident men try not to act shy at all

Answer 6

Well man you just have to do it. Get her alone and ask her. You could say "hey want to go out with me" or "want to go to a movie sometime" it really doesn't matter what you say, because if she likes you she will say yes. Just act natural like your talking to your best bud. you will be fine

Answer 7

the best way to do it is to just go up to her and start with small talk. even though you're shy, everyone gets nervous when trying to ask people out. good luck.

Answer 8

well first of all..you gotta introduce yourself...
and then chitchat a little...ask her what she likes to do and stuff...and casually insert in a "movie" conversation or any hobby you like to do but usually movie is always the way to go to get a girl.
then ask her if she wants to catch a movie with you and stuff...and by that time, i think she knows you are interested in her. Good Luck ^^

Answer 9

Just walk up to her and tell her that you like her. But try not to scare her to much. Use small words that will get the point across without any confusion.

Answer 10

Just say to yourself "i think i can" over and over again as youre walking towards her then ask her whats she's doing this weekend if she says she's busy ask her another time. Or If you cant talk write a note to her.