i have a female friend who was JUST my friend a while back. we are both in relationships, and she is in engaged to this clown..but that's another story. so her & i hit it off as friends, but our eyes just started to speak something different like a connection beyond friends. well after two months, we slept together. i know, its WRONG. so here we are now 9 months into this & she wants to leave him for me. i broke it off with my ex b/c she just used me & left me three times over the course of one year. so anyways, this girl & i love each other. we have a blast together. but now, i have a hard time breaking this off with her until she makes a decision with her life. i know everything has been wrong, but her finace has cheated on her & now vice versa. what am i to do? i know she is taken, but she ISNT married & everyone always says to follow my heart which i am. now i am willing to get hurt, b/c i have been in the past. but i want to know an honest thought of why i shouldnt follow my heart
2007-02-24 15:15:24 · 7 answers · asked by brianju 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really love her, let her know that you want a real relationship. If she's not willing to leave the clown, know that you may lose her altogether. Still, it is better than what you have. I hope things work out for you.
2007-02-24 15:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my honest thought would be that if she cheated on her fiance, whom she accepted his proposal to marry him because she loves him and wants the spend the rest of her life with him and all of a sudden she's in love with you and, is thinking about leaving her fiance just doesn't sound right. She'll only end up doing you wrong just like she's doing him.
2007-02-24 15:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can tell you not to follow your heart because thats not the right thing to do. obviously you and her belong together and you dont need me to tell you that. you and her need to sit down and figure out what you both are going to do. shes not married yet and she doesnt seem to want to be with the other guy anyways and you and her love eachother. you need to do what you both feel is right for both of you and that is why at this time you and her need to listen to your hearts more than ever.
2007-02-24 15:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truly love her...nothing should stop you and let her know that yu do love her and are willing to sacrifice yourself
FOLLOW YOUR HEART NO MATTER WHAT....trust me your heart will NEVER let you down
2007-02-24 15:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh what a tangled mess we weave,
When first we reasoned to deceive.
2007-02-24 15:17:53 · answer #5 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
she isn't married and neither are you...so if you'll both be unhappy without each other...why be with other people ???
Be with each other and be happy...
2007-02-24 15:20:16 · answer #6 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE YOU WERE FALLOWING YOUR LITTLE HEAD AT FIRST
2007-02-24 15:19:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋