i only like receiving oral sex.......?

Question

because i am not very good at giving it....am i selfish?

Answer 1

Practice makes perfect....Just work at it!

Answer 2

Yeh, you're selfish but that isn't a bad thing to be. During sex, one ought to be a bit selfish (it's impossible to have mutual pleasure if you aren't selfishly getting pleasured). And, confess, you like receiving oral sex--not only becuase you are not very good at giving it but also because it just feels sooooo good. Nothing wrong with that. But don't give up practicing on the things you aren't accomplished at too, might come in useful someday.

Answer 3

Practice makes perfect. As long as you don't try to bite the penis off, I don't know how you can go wrong. If you concentrate on the head long enough, it will drive any man wild. What's more to know than that? You are being selfish. I like to give, but I like to receive as well.

Answer 4

Pretend you're licking an ice-cream cone and you don't want it to drip. Get into and forget what you're doing. It also helps if you make fun of his facial expressions in your head...

No shame in not wanting to. I don't want to, either, so I developed a rule for getting out of it. I won't do it unless we're regularly having unprotected sex, because you can get anything by way of mouth that you can by way of... ya know. Except pregnant, but I've got depo to prevent that. I've allways thought that head was the ultimate slut move. others don't seem to agree...

EDIT
If a particular sex act EVER becomes a deal breaker, something's wrong. these people are saying crap about showing your love, and sex is not the only way.

Answer 5

Yes. You are. You have go give to receive. It's not going to go well if he's going downtown all the time on you and you don't go down on him. Doesn't it make you feel good to see him pleasured? A guy loves a girl who gives good oral. He will do anything for it. Practice..practice...practice..I suggest watching porn...Those women are eXperts.

Answer 6

No you are not selfish.. but how do you know you are not good at giving? Does he tell you that? Act like you are going to get kinkey with him and ask him what he wants you to do and tell him to talk to you.. !! Try it you might not be as bad as you think

Answer 7

Hi
I think that some thing is wacky here. Nothing more better and exciting than giving oral sex. Right on par with a bud light
Have you tried a 69. When giving,remember her/his c---/p----, its very sensitive and will make her/him scream with excitement. Use your tongue and lips on it. Stroking while giving go hand in hand. Good luck

Answer 8

To some, yes

For others who understand, No

Tell your partner that your not very good, ask him if there is any other way you can show your love. Or, if your good at something else, do that for him instead as a return.

(Hint: I can't tell if a girl is good or not, It feels great either way. I bet your good, but your not confident. I'd recommend you to just go ahead and do it.)

Answer 9

That's not selfish. However, you might not want to expect to recieve it much if you aren't returning the favour. You might try talking to your partner about it though! Maybe there are ways that you can please him/her in return for giving you oral, since you don't feel comfortable giving it.

Answer 10

You should try to work on your skills and satisfy your partner too...if they like recieving it that is...

it's only fair...

I really don't like giving oral, but I do it anyways because I know the other person enjoys it... I'm not always like "YES< OF COURSE!", but more often than not, I'm worried about thier pleasure as well as my own...

Answer 11

a little selfish. lol. what's the saying? it's better to give then to receive? you've just got it reversed. I'm the same way with massages.