Why does gettin ur heart broken hurt so much?

Answer 1

because you are just like me, and put your whole heart into a relationship. some people put up walls, and don't love with their entire self. people like you and me tend to put everything that we are, into a person, only to get hurt. I know how you feel. its like a never ending pain that always torments you day and night. try to focus on the other people in your life that you love/loves you. I am trying to do that as well. I know its easier said than done, but it does seem to help. good luck to you. hope you feel better soon:)

Answer 2

There, There. I know what you're talking about. I've been through it more times than I can even remember, and the most recent one came last November. I hate to say that I'm still healing from it, but if you're anything like me, it hurts so much because you finally thought that you had the right person for you. You had someone who you could relate to, someone you liked for who they were, not what they looked like, almost like a different version of yourself. But in life, good things do not last long, and you lost your chance. I know what it's like. Life seems to lose all of it's meaning, and you don't know where to turn. That's my opinion on why heartbreak hurts so much. Don't worry about it my friend, I'm sure that your stay at Heartbreak Hotel is limited, and you'll find someone soon. Good Luck, May God be with you.

Answer 3

That is a hard question to answer. It's because you put so much trust, energy, and time and especially every single feeling you have on this particular person. All to just have it taken away in the very moment. It sucks to build a relationship over time and then watch it crumble in just a shorter time.
I feel for you.
My heart is still broken years L8TR after the fact.

Answer 4

When you are in love you open up and expose your deepest feelings, dreams and insecurities. When some one breaks your heart you feel betrayed and exposed. You feel rejected, like he/she left you because there is something wrong with you. However, break-ups are not always due to something being wrong with the partners. Sometimes there are more important and serious reasons. Most of the time break-ups are due to the loss of interest in the things that used to be a commonality between them.

Answer 5

Would you prefer if love had no meaning at all? Just you liking another person with no meaning, just to have intercourse?

It hurts because it's a part of you. It means a lot to you and becomes a value, something of importance.

Answer 6

>> before falling in love we should think of its consequences at first. We shuld ready ourselves that maybe in the long run we might fall and get hurt. Most people loved and broke there herts in tyhe end and that is why when we fall in love we shuldn't give everyhing. we should save some for ourselves because the more you give the more hurt you get when you broke up.

>> loving is a way to test someones capability to commit and it is also a test to one's self esteem, fidelity and trust. There's nothing wrong in falling in love but we should always kep in mnd that before you could love somebody else WE SHOULD FIRST LOVE OURSELVES!!

Answer 7

It hurts a lot because then that means that you really did like, care, or love that person a lot.

Answer 8

Because you feel that the person you liked and would go out with just decides he doesn't like you any more. It's like your boyfriend coming up to you and saying "I don't like you any more". It's like your losing a best friend.

Answer 9

coz you gave everything, did everything, and still...it wasn't enought...and no matter what you do there's always a whisper in your heart that it wasn't meant to be..even though you really love so true..