I was this girl for seven years and now she broke up with me and tells me she is happier then she ever was for the last couple months that she was with. she tells me there is no more lover she loves like a brother, she tells me she is going out with friends and dont want me around her. she has moved on and doesnt want me in her life. she tells me there is no other guy but she acts so cold that i think she already has some one else. I try to go out with friends but i cant take care her off my head, i am going crazy i love thsi woman, but she doesnt love, how can i for get her, she doesnt want my friend ship, whats going on, should i really believe that after 7 years she lost all her love for me in the last couple months? can there be some one else with her already? she says no but i am going crazy i love this woman , want to just for get her and dont think about her but i cant? what is the best thing to do?
2007-02-24 14:48:31 · 5 answers · asked by leomebaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well maybe she has met someone she is interested in, sometimes women are weird and the littlest thing can turn them off. I'm sure she still loves you but just not that way anymore, sorry to say. just keep yourself busy, get out meet people, talk to someone about her until youre sick of hearing yourself talk about it. you will move eventually, its just your feelings were more sincere then hers were. you will meet someone else again when you are ready but you wont know you are ready until you let go. maybe she just needs some space too, that could be it, so give her space and time. if she loves you as much as you say then let her come back to you, leave her alone for awhile. dont call her, or contact her in anyway, then she will know youre moving on and that might scare her into realizing what her real feelings for you are and they might lead her back to you. but trust me from my own experience let her go!.
2007-02-24 15:03:31 · answer #1 · answered by tralw2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to not see her again. Ever.
She's acting cold because she doesn't want to be with you, and maybe by acting cold she's hoping you'll get the hint. It isn't any of your business anymore if she's seeing someone else or not.
The easiest way to move on yourself is to just cut off all ties. She probably hasn't lost all affection for you, but if she's gone, the love isn't there. Give it a few months, and if you run into her she won't be so cold anymore. Maybe then you could be friends.
I hope I don't sound too harsh, I just want to give you the answers you are looking for. Moving on isn't easy, but it will be damn near impossible if you don't stop seeing her and talking to her.
Good Luck... give it plenty of time. It'll get easier.
2007-02-24 22:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off you went out with her for 7 years and it's going to take alot of time for you to get over her. it's only natrual. my friend has the same problem and let me tell you dating people nonstop won't help, you need to find a someone who yuo can spend time with a find love all over agian not going out like instantly it won't work. First you really need to think about if you still want to be friends with her espically if you feel she being mean to you. if you do go for it but if you don't oh well... also if that won't work meet her someplace and spen some time toghter and you should get used to just being friends although trust me it probably will be awkward at first. Sorry about the breakup and hopes this helps
2007-02-24 23:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't forget her. I know. and I do not believe there is such acure.
2007-02-24 23:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by lady_nebica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-24 22:54:05 · answer #5 · answered by KroQeR 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋