The following is part of an e-mail my ex sent me. This is the answer he gave me for not calling right after he got back from Iraq. Many things have happended since then. We stop talking and 10 months have passed.
"I didnt avoid u.. I really was at the base (he is in the military) for one thing. Second, i didnt know how to tell u it wasnt gonna work (he is stationed overseas), its not that i stopped loving u its that when I got back from Iraq .. I needed to be with someone (as in needing support and company-He is in therapy) and u were not there.. it irritated me.. alot."
I don't know what to make of this. It basically says nothing...like it leaves me hanging. From a man's point of view, what is he trying to say???
2007-02-24 14:48:25 · 6 answers · asked by EV 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he wants "closure" and forgiveness for something he thinks your are angry about. He does have a good reason for maybe getting scared and breaking-up with you. Any long-distance relationship is very hard and as a soldier he doesn't know how long he will be gone, where he will be or if he is going to die. He perhaps should have given the relationship a chance of surviving his tenure at war but I can see how he was overwhelmed. I am also sure that part of him still cares for you and if you are not with anyone now there should be no harm in trying to salvage the friendship. Still, long-distance relationships are hard and you don't know when he will be stationed overseaas again so think about it real hard before you get involved with any long-distant relationship. It's hard. I know 'cause I am in one.
2007-02-24 14:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by Don Quesadia 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He still likes you but was upset that you werent there when he needed you so he found someone else? ..but only cause you werent there, or he would of chosen you. thats what i got out of it..if hes even telling you the truth.
2007-02-24 22:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by sarha b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people who come back from war go through alot of stuff so dont think about it the wrong way.
2007-02-24 22:56:26 · answer #3 · answered by digitaljimmy123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is saying that when he needed you, you weren't there - I think it is a pretty good bet that he has decided he can't rely on you so he has moved on.
2007-02-24 22:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by blahblahblah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is pretty stupid because he still has a girlfriend that cares about him at least
who cares about that loser?
2007-02-24 22:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by I love Beatriz...GOT A PROB? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HE'S SLEEPING WITH ANOTHER WOMAN SO LOSE HIM
2007-02-24 22:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋