friends - always with me before, makes me laugh before. respect me before. but now, doesn't seem to care anymore, don't listen to what im trying to say eventhough its important, makes me feel rejected by them. makes me feel that they're laughing at my back. and also when im around, they looked like they don't see me. and when im trying to tell something, they don't give a damn. i dont know why did they turned out that way. i've been with them over 3 years..
my boyfriend - even if im telling senseless things, he still listens, always there with me. makes me feel good. he also proved to me that he can be my friend, my brother, and my boyfriend. and even we have little fight, when day comes and i'll need him, he's always there.
that's why i choose my boyfriend over my friends. some may think im dumb sticking with my bf and leaving my friends, but to me, i decided right.
what about you guys? how can you comment on this? what do you think?
2007-02-24 14:46:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
me and my boyfriend were together for 1 year.
2007-02-24 14:47:34 · update #1
Stick with your bf! If he makes you feel more comfortable than your friends do then dont regret it! You should be really happy that you have such a great bf. And it doesnt matter if your friends act all messed up to you because they come and go. Right now hang out with the people that make you feel better....even if it means hanging out your bf and not your so called friends =)
2007-02-24 14:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by xx_Tina_xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your friends were acting really weird. Is it possible that they were feeling left out because you were spending less time with them and more with your boyfriend?
If so, then this sounds like it's just a vicious circle.
You should try talking to your friends, because there's no way you could be with those people for three years and not feel remorse at letting them go.
But congrats on finding such a great guy.
2007-02-24 22:52:55 · answer #2 · answered by Rosie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right, and you shouldn't feel bad about this. I have chosen my boyfriends or guy-friends many times over my girlfriends. Because girls are more moody and can be less fun while a guy always wants to have fun, and doesn't get in many fights. That's why I have more guy friends than girl friends, just because their better friends.
2007-02-24 23:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by Summerbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you did the right thing cuz if your friend are like that then they are not worth it. and if you and your bf ever brake up(hopefuly not) then you guys will mostlikely still be friends
2007-02-24 22:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by Varsity girl!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋