Me and this guy had a thing for like 5. he came sometimes, or we would go to parties together. yesterday a guy who is both of our friends told him that we were "dating" that made me smile when i heard that that was what he called it :). But about a month ago, he told me that he likes me but hes not sure if he likes me likes me. But earlier in the relationship he said he likes me and really wants to hangout. We havnt had sex together and we agreed that neither one of us was in it for the sex, but we did do somestuff, and i would have sex with him if we were going out. About a month ago when i invited him over He also then said he would be ditching me when he moves away to school,this summer(hes a year older). But now again he is flirting with me alot when ever im around him. Hes a really good rounded guy, we have good chemistry and great sexual attraction. He's really hot AND really sweet! Is he scared to get into a relationship because hes moving away? or does he truly not like me?
2007-02-24 14:41:28 · 12 answers · asked by sarha b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is doesnt want to really know u like he is waiting for the sex .... cuz like him wanting to ditch u hahaha that is so freakin hilarious cuz if u truly like some that wouldn't happen and he would at least go for school but keep in touch with u he is acutally very selfish because he is playing around with u like u are his entertainment here and when he leaves he will find some other girl and flirt around with them ..... best if u don't look too much into this and move on cuz he is trouble.....he is just using u emotionally
2007-02-24 15:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this guy is not sure what he wants, he is all over the place. If the chemistry is so great, then he should not be in and out of your life. His moving is a factor, but moving away does not change how a person feels about another person. He may like you, but you need to consider the fact that he is moving and he has not given you any reason to believe that you have a relationship with him.
2007-02-24 14:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by VLEEKS47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he really likes you, but I guess not the way you like him. It is also possible that he's scared or he's not ready to get into a relationship. But I personally think that he's just being a jerk. You shouldn't waste your time with him. I'm sure you will find other guys better than him.
2007-02-24 14:51:29 · answer #3 · answered by dreamer2578 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is going to be an absence in the relationship then perhaps not getting deeply involved is the next best thing dont you think?
2007-02-24 14:44:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as soon as you have sex with him he will drop you like yesterday's news and say "let's be friends". Don't get too close you'll be heartbroken when he moves.
2007-02-24 14:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by bulloch2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you think about having sex with someone when you aren't sure whether he "loves" you or not....LIKE does not mean Love...much different...Who knows what he is thinking, but you should not even be thinking of sex with him at this point.....
2007-02-24 14:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I have no idea what you are trying to say here - maybe he would like you if you were able to express yourself more clearly
2007-02-24 14:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by blahblahblah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really want to lock him in start having unprotected sex like now
2007-02-24 14:45:35 · answer #8 · answered by BingoBanggoBongo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think he wants to get complicated and messy and then have to leave that behind. thats all
2007-02-24 15:41:39 · answer #9 · answered by leanne p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you just ask and find out if he likes you. why all the games.
2007-02-24 14:43:39 · answer #10 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋