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2007-02-24 14:27:44 · 2 answers · asked by jfkd g 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Well, we need a girl who is understanding that we don't always want to talk all the time. I like to just sit on the porch with my lady and not really say anything, watch the sunset or something. Us quiet guys communicate more than most people know, but you have to pay attention. Being a good listener is a must, we don't like to say the same crap 20 times. We are VERY into music and probably reading. Pay attention to the type of music we are listening to, that will tell you what we are thinking. We don't always know how to express ourselves, help out a little but don't push it.

Most of all don't be a biatch, we HATE that above all else, be kind and you will not regret it.

2007-02-24 14:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by stratplayer1967 5 · 1 0

Confidence is good. But- be TOO confident and you seem aggressive, which can be intimidating. It's a fine line !

Find some chances for physical contact. When you walk together, hold his hand. If you get a chance, rub your upper arm against his. Rest your head on his shoulder. Be prepared for long silences.

Tell him you have a sore neck, ask him to massage it.

You are simply letting get used you being near him, physical contact without worrying about expectations.

Don't pressure him to talk, chances are he can't express his feelings anyway. Instead, give him opportunities to SHOW how he feels. I'm reminded of a young cat, that would bring me live mice as "presents".

2007-02-24 14:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by Alan 6 · 0 0

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