if a man leaves his wife because she is a nasty,controlling ***** why after being divorced for 6 yrs does he still allow her to call all the shots if thats the reason he left her in the 1st place?its not that he regrets his decision he could have her back in 2 secs but they do have a child together(joint custody)
2007-02-24 14:26:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
maybe he feels like this is having two wives,
2007-02-24 14:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the reason.. If you pay child support, she calls the shots lol hate to say it, but if you make one wrong move the worst she could do is increase what you're paying now. My mom did the same thing to my dad for no reason. Only Because she had the power to.
2007-02-24 14:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy has NO spine...... he's a spineless jelly fish, and it has not something to do with the the reality they have a newborn mutually..... that's because of the reality that he married a females that replace into in basic terms like his momma, and needs the attention she gave him, even however the attention replace into administration! In different words... He would earnings from treatment! He needs to benefit to stand on his own 2 ft and make his own judgements in existence! different than whilst it includes the newborn, Then because of the fact they have joint custody it is going to be a 50/50 determination..... Now, get a existence and locate yet another females, this one can be not something like your mom.... sort her after your FATHER!
2016-10-16 10:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason he allows her to control parts of his life is because they do have a child together. As the mother of their child, he just has to suck up some things and allow her to be the nasty woman she is for his child.
2007-02-24 14:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because like alot of men that love their children , they tend to playcate to the x wife thinking that if they dont they will make life hard on them with their children so they rather give in then put of the confrontation of actting as if they have a back bone..
2007-02-27 05:55:38 · answer #5 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He realizes that his main obligation is to his first wife and family, and that shows his good character. However, if you are the one now involved with him, you will have to realize the situation you are getting into, and see if you really want to deal with all that. You can't make it change...
2007-02-24 21:33:21 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's weak. And he doesn't want to go on and make a new life
for himself. He's stuck in his own head. I have no respect for a
man like that. I just kicked one to the curb for that.....meeeooow
2007-02-24 14:34:19 · answer #7 · answered by CraZyCaT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out of respect for the child, he should have a relationship with his ex. The child does not need to see them not getting along.
For your own sake you need to back off.
2007-02-24 14:38:26 · answer #8 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because hes still in love with her and likes that sort of relationship. You should try being bossier likely he'll like you more than her and finally he'll get her out of his life. He uses the kid link to keep you jealous and freaked out.
2007-02-24 14:35:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is NOT a man. He is a wimp, a liver brained , spineless, worm. No MAN would live such a life.
2007-02-24 14:57:29 · answer #10 · answered by kuyasaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 11 years into this marriage, and she still has him by the balls. If you figure out how/why, let me know. They DO have some sick hold, don't they?
2007-02-24 14:35:29 · answer #11 · answered by momof2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋