When I like a guy.......?

Question

When I like a guy when I talk to them sometimes I'm really mean. Then later I feel really bad about what I said to them earlier. Is there any way to get me to like stop doing that...cause it makes me feel REALLY bad! :(

i think it might be that i think the only way they'll notice me is if i stand out to them and i do that by saying mean things i try to get their attention with mean things

Answer 1

What do you mean by mean? Just make sure you don't make fun of his appearance, as guys can get very sensitive (although they don't show it). If it's playful mean, that's fine, although it's not the best way to flirt. If you like him, try touching him (on the arm, shoulder, or whatever); that way, you'll be sure you have his attention.

Answer 2

I do the same thing, and then I feel stupid and mean afterwards ...
I dont think theres any way to stop it, its just your flirting style. Guys will get used to it, and soon enough they'll be flattered that you're being mean to them, coz they'll know you were flirting!
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Answer 3

haha i have this girl that does that to me
anyway

well sometimes it just comes out as a "habit" like some ppl would tirwirl their fingers when they're nervous
i guess you could think twice about what you say
and always be in control so you do not blurr things out

Answer 4

It might be an age thing that you will outgrow. Once you have more experience with the opposite sex you will naturally stop doing that.

Answer 5

think before you say anything to them

Answer 6

you need to find out why your acting that way,,love yourself so you can love others

Answer 7

think before you act. apologize to him.