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2007-02-24 14:13:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

don't worry, it's not me, it's my boyfriend... he told me he loved me but I'm not sure if he quite knows what love is yet. But what if he does? Help please~

2007-02-24 14:16:39 · update #1

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Although it is not impossible, falling in love is improbable at fifteen. At fourteen, I had a "thing" for a girl who was a year younger than me. In my Sophmore year, her family moved to Okinawa. I was devastated to the point of losing my appetite, losing weight, feeling bad, etc. Finally, I got out of the doldrums by doing joining The Civil Air Patrol for teens, and meeting other people. I realized that although I had cared for the girl, and we still get along after all these years, that it wasn't the kind of love that people have for each other that leads to marriage. It was just infatuation. Looking back, I can see that what love is to you at 14 through 18, is not the same thing as it is from 18 and beyond. So I caution you so as not to suffer heart break needlessly. Take your time,
don't rush into a relationship, and do not commit to one relationship that will bog you down. Meet other people your age, do different things, and remember there are many different flowers in the garden. Don't over look that orchid, while searching for a rose.

2007-02-24 14:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by rexallen 3 · 0 1

I think anything's possible and it depends on the individual person, so without knowing you I can't say for sure. I know when I was 15 I thought I could fall in love, but now that I look back I know that I had no idea what love really was.

2007-02-24 22:16:14 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle N 2 · 0 0

Yes! I don't care what people tell you. I fell in love for the first time at 14, now I'm all grown have a family of my own, and I am still friends the guy I fell in love with. Just be very careful with what you do and try not to get your heart broken.

2007-02-24 22:19:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0 0

You are not going to want to hear this, but at 15 and 16 and even 17 & 18, all of it is lovein your mind. In reality though, it is far from it. Love is very hard and at that age, you just don't have true love, you probably have true infatuation. I dated a guy when I was 16, I thought he was my soul mate, when we broke up I cried for weeks and it took months to get over him. Now I am 25 and married and know that it was far from love. Good luck and don't rush things.

2007-02-24 22:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by Barbara C 6 · 0 0

yes you can but you have to understand love changes every second its just hard to keep up with it. Love and responsiblity are to different things LOVE IS NEVER RESPONSIBLE. Also you can love many different people you just never love any one the same way because life lessons teach you to be more careful and love a little more careful so to tell you the truth if he is a good guy let him love you! You can love him too it just may not be the same like romeo and juliet if you know what i mean.

2007-02-24 22:22:55 · answer #5 · answered by donaberry1 2 · 0 0

Yes. But it's not likely to last. Think of how different you were two or three years ago, as a 12 or 13 year old. You're likely to be a very different person when you're 18 or 20. Enjoy what you're feeling, but don't expect it to last forever.

2007-02-24 22:17:24 · answer #6 · answered by Biff 3 · 1 0

No, Never. Its not love. Its just Infatuation. forget about it. just pass time as usaual. If it last a longer like 3/4 years more. then u should think about it.

2007-02-24 22:30:41 · answer #7 · answered by ferdousprogrammer 1 · 0 0

Actually what you are feeling are very strong natural urges to find a male and produce a child!! So unless you are ready to ruin your life at fifteen with a child or STD pay no attention to your feelings!!!

2007-02-24 22:20:17 · answer #8 · answered by platinumlady 2 · 0 0

I fell in love when I was 11, but i didn't relize it till I was 14 at that time, I grew up, and the feeling grew with me. I'm 22 now and I'm still in love with him. SO if you ask me-YES IT IS POSSIBLE
JUst be careful, you're too young

2007-02-24 22:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by angel 3 · 1 1

yes. certain people are capable of different emotions at different ages based on maturity. if you beleive that you are in love, then you probably are. hopefully with someone who loves you back, though not in my case

2007-02-24 22:17:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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