Ok im in this relationship I've been in it 3 months now. The guy is great give me almost anything I want we talk on the phone litrally 11 hours a day and we say I love you every 5 minutes. He really seems to care for me and im the first girl hes ever loved. All he ever wants to do when were together is hold me and just sit and talk. (unlike most guys) Neither of us keep secrets from the other. He knows everything and so do I. Were very honest with each other and I am sure where in love. When he looks me in the eye and says I love you I just know its true and I feel like I can spend the rest of my life with him. Do you think its healthy and were in love???? My cousin ONCE AGAIN! Does not think so!
2007-02-24 14:05:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like TRUE LOVE to me.
2007-02-24 14:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I understand being in love at a young age. I was very much in love as a teen. But I know from experiance that heart-break comes around the corner a million times before you find "the one" don't think about spending the rest of your life with him just yet. Just enjoy the time you have together now. And mind your heart. And remember you may fall in love a few more times after this one, although I know you can't begin to imagine that right now,but there is no love like the first love. In fact I'm still trying to keep in contact with mine after 15 years!
2007-02-24 14:15:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may or may not be love but it certainly isn't healthy. Get out and see your friends, take part in your favorite activities and continue to date the guy (that's right -go out and do something together). You don't need to spend 11 hours a day on the phone. That's no measure of love. That's obsession. And it will all get old quickly if you don't fill your life with other people and experiences to keep yourself interesting and challenged. Don't neglect your friends because you will always need them around to comfort you when Mr Wonderful falls short of your expectations. (Yes, it will happen; we're all human after all).
2007-02-24 14:15:29 · answer #3 · answered by nycbabybear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're in love yet. You're not really in love until you show each other your true selves. You don't always spend hours trying to make yourself look good; you can say something that you know he won't agree with and that's ok; you've had your first arguement and worked through it.
Right now, it sounds like you're in romance. Which is a great place to be. And once you've been there for a few more months, you'll know better how in love you really are.
2007-02-24 14:14:58 · answer #4 · answered by Biff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is a dumb question to be honest with you. If you feel great being with him then why do you need to ask? It seems you're insecure about something and have to get reassurance about it. It's your life and if you're happy then who cares if people think it's good or not? As long as there's no abuse or anything harmful going on you shouldn't be concerned.
Oh, and don't move too fast. People fall in love quickly, but you can fall out of love even faster if you get to know eachother too quickly. Just don't rush anything. Good luck!
2007-02-24 14:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by meghanw1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL HE NEEDS TO FIND A JOB IF HE HAS 11 HRS A DAY TO SPEND ON THE PHONE WHERE DOES HE GET MONEY TO GIVE YOU E VERYTHING YOU WANT AND IT SOUNDS MORE LIKE YOUR'E IN LOVE WITH BEING IN LOVE AND SAYING I LOVE IS EASY PROVING IT IS MUCH HARDER
2007-02-24 14:15:25 · answer #6 · answered by tj b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Old enough to get married? Sounds like this may be the guy. Take care.
2007-02-24 14:10:43 · answer #7 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with what you have said i find it very hard to believe you are not in love. also you are the only one that can know if you are truly in love dont leave it to your cousin to ruin something as great as what you have with him
2007-02-24 14:11:26 · answer #8 · answered by Thnks Fr Th Mmrs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww thats sooo cute....the only person that can answer the question if your in love is you ...but you are in a healthy relationship and you sound very happy
2007-02-24 14:12:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT WONT LAST YOU WILL SOON HAVE SECRETS AND HE WILL BE A JERK ITS THE WAY GUYS ARE ONCE YOU SLEEP WITH HIM ITS ALL OVER FROM THERE AND IF YOU WAIT TOO LONG TO SLEEP WITH HIM HE'LL DUMP YOU SO YOUR OUT OF LUCK EITHER WAY
2007-02-24 14:11:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋