I really wanna make out with guys and stuff but its just its kinda weird cuz i am 13 and i dont want guys to say that im a bad kisser. I want to its just i dont want to be like a bad kisser and ive kissed people before but not like that. and ive only made out with people when i am drunk or high so i dont know what to do.
2007-02-24 13:57:38 · 19 answers · asked by pretty_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that same thing happend to me and a lot of other girls. just do it. the first time is always nerve wrecking. it gets easier and more comfortable the more it happens.
2007-02-24 14:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by sugar_pye_99 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all your only 13 you should not be high or drunk or trying to make out with anyone your mom should be beating your *** for what you just said.
Let me calm down, baby you got all your life ahead of you to experience things like that don't rush it because when you do it won't be as special as you expected it to be. And if you start early you'll turn into things you never thought you would that is how it starts. Just wanting to know is enough for you right now give it some time when its right you'll know.
2007-02-24 22:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by Kenyett J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 13 years old and you are scared because you are not emotionally ready to make out!! What is the big hurry to grow up? You should try going out with groups of both sexes to things like movies and amusement parks. Why do you feel that you have to get high or drunk? Try finding something that you really enjoy doing to make you feel good!! Maybe Horse back riding, skating , dancing, painting, hiking etc.
2007-02-24 22:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by platinumlady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People around you as well as on this cyber community care about you, and that's why you have been receiving so many answers telling you not to do what you have been indulging into.
Life is very beautiful, and you have a long life ahead of you. One small mistake at this tender age has the potential to change your life in an irrevocable way and may leave you regret all your life. Please act and behave sensibly, and maybe talk to someone one-on-one who really cares about you. Those moments will be well spent.
2007-02-24 22:16:01 · answer #4 · answered by Version 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all you should know something that I didn't know until I was 17 and I wish I'd known sooner. Making out turns all guys on. Even the strong Christians. So you probably should wait until you're married anyway. It's better not to put yourself or the guy in temptation until you are married or at least engaged and able to control your desires for each other until marriage.
2007-02-24 22:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by SouthernGirlTX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i totally understand what ur going through...except for the being drunk and high part which i advise u stop....but anyway i was like wicked scared to make- out w/my bf bc i was afriad i would be bad but u just gotta get over it bc the only way u can get better at it is doing and i dont kno why i was so scared in the first place
2007-02-24 22:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by sportygurl686 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First try and get sober. After that things happen when they happen. So just wait until you get the chance and then go for it. It wont matter if your bad or good cuz the guy will still be in ahh that your kissing him so your really in control
2007-02-24 22:04:23 · answer #7 · answered by Steve M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are u drunk and or higha nd ur only 13? Maybe if you get off the drugs and start thinking about what your doing to yourself...then maybe u could get over being scared of making out.
To be honest I think you're really going down the wrong turn and u need to be thinking about your future more then getting high, drunk, and making out....this is just immature kid talk to be honest also....you are what makes our generation look bad...get off the drugs and go to church and stop wasting our time with these immature questionS.
2007-02-24 22:02:26 · answer #8 · answered by Prophet_Dizzle 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are 13 and you said you have been drunk or high when you make out... and you are expecting help from a stranger.
2007-02-24 22:01:06 · answer #9 · answered by Miso 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just do it. you cant be that bad. you've been drunk and high and you're only 13, you've got some other issues to work on before you worry about making out.
2007-02-24 22:01:29 · answer #10 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh.. don't force yourself t do it, when it happens it'll happen.. My first kiss was at 16 so just don't rush into anything. And be smart don't be goin out and getting drunk and high, your smart I bet. So be smart and just take your time with kissing and life.. Enjoy it and don't give into stupid things.
2007-02-24 22:02:02 · answer #11 · answered by evolutiondamngood 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋