im in love with my best friend, and he says he's in love with me too, we talk everyday, and we actually have thought about going out, but right when we started ''going out'', he and his ex got back together..i dont know if i should keep talking to him, or what .. what i do know is that it hurts too much.
2007-02-24 13:48:45 · 10 answers · asked by nixxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen to your heart what's it tell you? I'm in a situation kinda like this, and it does and will hurt to see the one you love with other people but in the end if it's ment to be for you and that other person to be together then it'll be. Let him know how you feel maybe ask him who he'd rather have you or his ex, that is if it's way too hard for you to see him with someone else, than maybe move on.. Just don't regret it later on; fight for what you love, fight for what you want. Never listen to anybody else because when it comes down to it you are the only person who actually knows what you want. Goodluck, hope it works out for you!
2007-02-24 13:53:39 · answer #1 · answered by evolutiondamngood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think you need to sit him down and talk to him about this. Tell him how your feeling cuz what he didn't was NOT OK! He can't just leave u on the spot and he wouldn't if he loved you. Tell him that and see what he says. Still be friends but think about your self before you think about him, you don't wanna get hurt so don't go into this to fast he already hurt you once. But be open and if they do break up don't throw yourself at him make sure u take him but keep an eye on him if he left you once you can't trust him very easily and when you are dating after 3 months if your good then I think you two are probably gonna be fine. I hope things work out for you!
2007-02-24 13:55:05 · answer #2 · answered by Erin W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex changes relationships. How would you feel if you two were a couple and it didnt work out and he didnt want to be friends anymore? At least this way if/when he breaks up w/ his current GF you two will still be buddies right? Something to think about. Good Luck!
2007-02-24 13:53:29 · answer #3 · answered by Smarty Pants™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so still talk to him...u gotta make him love u more than his ex. it probably wont work out with the 2 of them anyway cuz they already broke up once so u know something isnt perfect betweem them both. keep hanging on to him dont give up or else u WILL, i repeat, WILL LOSE HIM! keep with em!
2007-02-24 13:53:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably he wu tired of waitin 4 wen u guys wer gonna go out and he found sum1 dah wuz up 4 it. however, i saii that you fight for him. ask him WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS? YOU SAID YOU LOVE ME AND IM READY TO TAKE THE NEXT STEP WITH YOU.... do whatever i takes to prove that you are the girl he deserves to be with. of you have any questions, email me at fanofrhcp122@yahoo.com
2007-02-24 13:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're wasting your time my friend....ur young and really relationships these days are really based off of sex when ur young...i would suggest not dating your bestfriend because it probably cause more drama and u would probably end up breaking up and losing your best friend.
2007-02-24 13:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by Prophet_Dizzle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait it out. If it is true love then it will happen. If not well then you have one heck of a good friend.
2007-02-24 13:52:22 · answer #7 · answered by amazedmaize 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE'S PLAYER SWEETHEART HE PROBABLY REALLY DOES LIKE YOU BUT HE STILL LOVES HIS EX HE WENT OUT WITH YOU AND DECIDED HE WANTED TO BE WITH HIS EX STAY AWAY FROM HIM UNTIL HE DECIDES WHAT HE WANTS YOU DESERVE BETTER
2007-02-24 13:59:08 · answer #8 · answered by tj b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can still talk to him about stuff...just think of a way to break them up
2007-02-24 13:52:02 · answer #9 · answered by Hot Clarinets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have a talk with him as he tells you he loves you and then goes back to her. he sure is fickle.
2007-02-24 13:53:58 · answer #10 · answered by avalon123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋