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2007-02-24 13:41:46 · 14 answers · asked by I hate pink 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be yourself. like that other dude said...saying stuff about other men is a huge barrier I always think "**** you, I don't care why are you telling me this?" Infact, if i told you about the countless women i have had...that tells you nothing interesting. Don't use things as sex objects (doubt you would)...don't show that you are scared..like talking to fast take **** slow and relaxed "chilled" Don't talk about your sex toys...annoying. "I bought a dildoh a spencers" .....nooooot what i want to hear. Talk about interests.... what do you appreciate in life....have an opinion of your own don't always agree with a man..that shows desperateness.
2007-02-24 13:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are talking to just a friend, DONT touch him. He'll get the wrong idea. If you are talking to a guy you like, if he makes a joke, laugh and touch his shoulder. breaking into his "space" lets him know you are interested but too much and for too long makes you look clingy and guys hate that. dont forget that guys have big egos, so dont put him in a position where he thinks he looks lame in front of his mates
2007-02-24 21:56:56 · answer #2 · answered by brodie127 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, BE YOURSELF. Thats like the #1 rule. Don't be fake or be over-flirtatious. If you act desperate for attention, the only guys that will dig you are the desperate ones themselves. Always keep eye contact, guys like that. DON"T try to match your personality / hobbies / interests with the guy you're talking too. If he likes heavy metal and you dont, don't pretend like you do, but don't mention that you hate it unless he asks you. Always look for something in his clothing / hair that you could compliment on. After you have been talking to him for like two or three days, you can start acting playful (i.e. smack him lightly on the shoulder, etc. guys like it when girls touch them). Just dont do it too often, or you're gonna look desperate.
2007-02-24 21:51:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 Be yourself
2 Don't be clingy(I'm talkn' about hanging on their arms and stuff)
3 Don't smak gum
4 Don't try and be all tough and hardcore(unless you really are)
5 Don't giggle(Actually laugh if you find their joke funny)
6 If you don't find their joke funny just smile and shake your head
7 Don't bring up other hot guys
8 Don't talk about girly shows like Grey's Anatomy or America's Next Top Model
9 Be witty and outgoing
10 If he doesn't look interested, know when to stop talking and say goodbye
2007-02-24 21:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by Hello,It'sMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every guy is different, in my opinion do not talk about anything too gross, guys talk about messed up stuff together but when they think of a women it is supposed to be beautiful and associating that with anything they do in the bathroom ruins all the beauty, do not nag a guy thats the worst thing to do, talk about things the guy is interested in, or just talk ,a lot of guys will just listen to anything you say
2007-02-24 21:47:53 · answer #5 · answered by ddcass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them about themselves, their interests, etc. Don't be giggly and silly. Be respectful, of yourself, and them. Listen and get a lot of good information. Do obviously converse (talk) with them, but about interesting stuff, not giggly girl stuff. And yes, do laugh at funny stuff. It is okay to have a good sense of humor.Take care.
2007-02-24 21:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when u talk to guys...they dont usually like girls that know every thing and think they r the best and dont shut up---give the guy a chance to say something and find a commen intrest; dont have a dull silant moment its way too akward.........if ur trying to flirt playing with ur hair and cutely laughing and smiling always helps.................dont act eager and annoying *be ur self***hope this helps
2007-02-24 21:46:00 · answer #7 · answered by Kyndra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kno everyone says this but just be urself dont try to hard to impress the guy find a common interest and go from there. and like us girls guys always like complements.
2007-02-24 21:47:09 · answer #8 · answered by sportygurl686 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont talk about other guys that a easy one...
dont talk about the stuff that he doesnt care... like when u sleep or wake up or how many boyfirends you have....
2007-02-24 21:44:56 · answer #9 · answered by Boss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like when a girl only talks about herself. I like it when a girl talks about her AND asks me quesitons. Don't talk about your other boyfriends unless he asks you about it. Just be yourself, and don't try to be someone that your not.
2007-02-24 21:44:43 · answer #10 · answered by Joseph 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋