all guys i know are shallow, weightlifting, stuck-on-themselves jocks who only wanna hook up with girls for a good time. are they're any guys left out there who will look at a girl and tell her shes beautiful and actually mean it? are they're any guys left who will talk to a girl and love her for who she really is?
2007-02-24 13:40:42 · 36 answers · asked by that girl♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-24 13:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Certainly! All the guys you know are under 30. You said, "nice, sweet, kind, caring", not "beautiful rock-hard stud boy toy". Such youngsters really do spend time staring at themselves in the mirror, thinking how wonderful they are; in male-only groups, they really do brag about the women they've degraded and how.
Meet some older men. By the time we hit 40, we really work at a date. Some of this is desperation; we're not getting younger. Some of this is experience. You get better service on your car when you see an experienced mechanic; you get better treatment on a date from experienced men. We buy flowers, wear clean shirts, and show up on time. We hold open doors, pick up dinner checks, and tend to admit that "Saw VIII The Bloodbath" may not be the right date movie. Later on (not to be pornographic), you will discover that older men are willing and able to unhook a bra without ripping it. Some of us know where to look for the ON button. Most of us are in no hurry and few of us think you should install a revolving door in your bedroom, let alone an ejection seat. Yes, we will call you back.
Older men tend to carry spare tires, too, as well as other unpleasant baggage, such as ex-wives, unpaid mortgages, viable careers with demanding bosses, and peculiar aversions to certain foodstuffs, galleries, and music. Women your own age may call your date "Dad" and suspect you're taking his money -- although he probably has less to throw around than the frat boy. It's up to you to educate your friends and let them know what a great lover you have.
2007-02-24 14:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by Xiong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heavily think of, you may flow away it on my own for now. The ball is now in his courtroom. you have made it sparkling that your fascinated, and he has all the skill to get in touch with you. via your area and via telephone. If he's relatively fascinated, he will ultimately call. you appear to be an relatively valuable, clever youthful woman, and that i'm valuable you stumbled on that way, notwithstanding, yet another telephone call from you and he could start to experience forced, and adult males hate to be forced into issues, and no count how shy a guy is, if he's fascinated he will call, exceptionally whilst your movements make it sparkling which you're open to his enterprise. If he would not call, do no longer subject, nor blame your self. this is easily his loss. it is likewise a good element, that it takes lots for a guy to income your pastime, it basically skill that your options will basically get greater valuable as time is going on. i don't understand why an excellent sort of you youthful women do no longer supply your self sufficient credit, once you question what "you're doing incorrect" ......... your no longer doing something incorrect. adult males are basically basically hardheaded at circumstances and basically don't get it.....and on your counsel the "good women" in many circumstances continually win. So wait and spot, if this is destined to return, it is going to, despite if or no longer this is him, or somebody else.... interior the mean time you take exhilaration on your trip, enable him take exhilaration in his, and wait and spot what happens upon your return. Take care, good success, and save keeping on on your values, that's a rarity these days. Panterita
2016-10-01 22:37:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going to get a load on this 1. Yes there are try looking in different areas, raise your quality up a notch .
You have to present yourself as that type of person that wants someone other than what you attract.
Stay away from the kind you so much dislike. Well that's all for now Have fun be safe.
2007-02-24 13:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have not disappeared, we are out there( not wanting to sound presumptuous). I think you are looking in the wrong places, you need to broaden your radar. Rethink your first impression criteria, it may be whats leading you back to the guys you don't like.You will probably find that you will have to make the first move to catch this kind of personality as they are not easily the aggressor . They may be cautious even if they notice you ,less they offend you. Don't give up they are there, just usually on the sidelines buried behind the jocks.
2007-02-24 14:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by Card Modeler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are nice guys out there yes. Not all guys are shallow or selfish.
If you want to chat sometime give me a shout.
ITs tough when you cant find someone. Trust me, my gf cheated on me and I have felt really down many times since. But I know I'm a good guy and I wouldn't compromise that.
Good luck in your search. You will find that great guy.
2007-02-24 13:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes MA'AM i'm like that i'm not stuck on my self guy's like that are loser's and guy's that only talk 2 girls 2 hook up 4 a good time are not real men they are boy's if I tell a girl is beautiful of corse I mean it y don't u email me and I we will talk otay later babe
2007-02-24 14:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah there are im more of a romantic then the type of guy 4 a 1 night stand....I love women 4 who they are......I can tell you your beautiful and actually mean it..I love my gurl and i say things like that 2 her all the time...I write her poetry and just do wat i do
Just because your having trouble finding a guy like that does'nt mean there are'nt any out there keep lookin. You'll find a good 1.
2007-02-24 14:01:11 · answer #8 · answered by Don L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These guys today seem to have forgotten the vowels of being a man...
A= Artistic
E= Educated
I= Intelligent
O=Open minded
U=Unpretentious
I blame the "marketplace"..as they seem to be getting away with it and not having to put forth the effort we did in the past.
2007-02-24 13:45:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's "there" (not 'they're' which is a contraction of they are). And to answer your question, yes...there are TONS of them.
Relax and be patient...you've got plenty of years ahead to meet guys...in the mean time, make your life the best it can be!
2007-02-24 13:50:04 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes me but nobody wants to be bothered with me because im on the heavyer side all the girls are looking for those little guys and never give us a chance
2007-02-24 14:05:20 · answer #11 · answered by STEVEN L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋