We both feel completely comfortable with each other and neither of us have ever had any past sexual experiences. She had just asked me last night if it was ok if we started to "experiment." We aren't actually going to have sex.
We are both 17, although she is 8 months older...
2007-02-24 13:20:23 · 10 answers · asked by destructive_llama@rogers.com 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We both feel the same about not having actually sex until we are married, so if we do do this it wont be like that. Although I suppose things can change in the moment of time...
Thank you for the answers guys and ladies.
2007-02-24 13:35:59 · update #1
no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you don't "experiment" until your married!!!!!!!!
2007-02-24 13:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by mascot336 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is WAY too early.. Wait AT LEAST another year...Okay? Even if you think you aren't actually going to have sex, "experimenting" can and will lead to having sex TOO early. Just get to know each other more and realize that sex is meant for two people who are deeply in love and care about each other, preferably married, but anyway it's meant to be shared with one person and only one person, okay? What if you have an STD or she has an STD that neither of you know about? There's always a chance of pregnancy.. .What if this experimenting DOES lead to sex? Then what? What if you rush into things too fast?? etc..
My best advice is just wait.
2007-02-24 21:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by Kiara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only problem with "experimenting" is the experiment can go too far, too quickly. And yes, for that, a month is too early to start "experimenting" with sex. Wouldn't you rather be two of those who don't and won't until you are married? The Golden Vow I think it's called? Take care.
2007-02-24 21:26:16 · answer #3 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its to early, first you and your partner need to go to a clinic to get tested for any STD's (Sexually Transmitted Diease's) I'm only 13 and I know that. Because remember STD's don't only get transmitted by sexual activity. Then if your both tested negative make sure your wearing a condom while having sex. And she doesn't like the way condom's feel then respect that and ask her to start birth control. Remember all first times hurt so be careful.
2007-02-24 21:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by Pecabo G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you start having sex you just might find it too addicting. I would just keep having fun the way that you are. Save your experimenting for later when you know for sure that you guys will be staying with each other. Don't ruin a good thing with sex...you just might regret it later.
2007-02-24 21:25:25 · answer #5 · answered by Sandra C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two feel comfortable, that is all that matters. Neither does age.
I waited for a while until I felt comfortable. My best advice to you would be to not do anything you might regret.
If you both truly are comforable, then these will be some of your best moments..
Good luck, hun.
2007-02-24 21:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by Legacy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you and her are very comfortable with each other try experimenting but remember that your feelings might actually lead to having sex. Wear condom if you go farther than just experimenting
2007-02-24 21:31:58 · answer #7 · answered by scotty2626 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, just don't get her knocked up.
2007-02-24 21:23:41 · answer #8 · answered by if i only knew 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no its fine work away
2007-02-24 21:24:21 · answer #9 · answered by will 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol, if you experiment you will!
2007-02-24 21:23:48 · answer #10 · answered by defragmentedbrain 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋