Well, we're friends. We're not that close, but seemingly getting closer. Well, I've kinda....fallen in love with her. (we're in high school) Sometimes it seems as if she likes me.....but sometimes it doesn't. Today was one of the latter days..... Well, the end of today anyway. I've asked her to hang out with me twice in the last few weeks, like yesterday....but both times she's been busy. She's not lying. She really does have a lot of stuff going on, but still......I don't know. We flirt all the time, and she's always soooo nice to me. And I really really like her. I've tried to focus on other girls, but they just can't compare. Please don't say "just tell her how you feel" or something like that. I want to just hang out with her one on one, have some time alone with her, get to know her better, if you know what I mean. It would be nice if she make the first move, but we know that's not gonna happen lol. Besides, I'm not even very confident that she likes me. *sigh*. What am I to do?
2007-02-24 13:07:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont tell her how you feel at first
becoz if you do and she doesnt feel the same way it could ruin the friendship
and it seems like you guys have a good friendship
just try to get to know her and being there for her
like if she is stressed out say how about we take a little break
and get her some Jamba Juice
or little things like that
2007-02-24 13:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by S*M*I*L*E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this condition... The best thing you can do is start writing notes to her. This way she can answer you on her own time. And over all, follow your heart and be yourself. I accually have just started out w/ the girl I was involved with. I hope you end up with her as well.
Best of luck
2007-02-24 21:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by tjfirey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she likes you she will try to play hard to get. You said that when you asked her about hanging out she was busy. Thats a good sign. Also when you talk to her watch for these signs: leaning forward (interested in what you are saying), flips her hair, and touches you while she talks to you. If she does those things alot, take a chance..ask her out. see what happens.
2007-02-24 21:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by joe jonas is my man =]] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her for a free time maybe just go to eat or to a park for a little while to talk or maybe you can u help her with her homework... im not sure i didnt have that problem i was in highschool and i dated a guy that was 22 so im not sure but thats what i would do .... hope u get her!!!! good luck
2007-02-24 21:13:53 · answer #4 · answered by lionqueen182005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u do is instead of askin her just 1 time, ask her when her schedule is available, and go with that. then just talk bout how evrything's goin, then in the middle of it all, when she least expects it, tell her how much u like her. it will give her a surprise and keep the convo goin. it will also make it easier on her, since u had been talkin all that time. hope it helps
2007-02-24 21:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by jbgoldengun 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just go right up to her and kiss her. see how she reacts and then move forward from that. time is wasting and precious.
2007-02-24 21:11:38 · answer #6 · answered by fire_mage21 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋