career was a disappointment
all my girl friends have families of their own now
guys just want in my pants
my life is a joke
2007-02-24 12:57:36 · 10 answers · asked by Louisville girrrl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe give some other kinds of guys a chance, maybe date a nerd who would worship and adore you? Some of those "hottie" bad boys just don't satisfy anyone outside of high school. A satisfying romance might turn around your life? ♥ There are lots of guys who could make all your dreams come true, and would never abuse you, if you would stop looking for bad boys.
2007-02-24 13:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad I just turned 30 in January and like yourself feel like I'm alone in this world sometimes. To make matter worst I'm the oldest out of 3 boys and bot of my brothers have kids. And the topic of this past Christmas was when are you going to get a girlfirend and kids.
Everyone has their own path to take in life and only when the time is rght is Mr. Right going to walk into your life and sweep you off your feet. I always hear the old saying about someone for everyone and all that crap. And also lie you all but two of my friends are married, have kids or are in a commtited relationship. To make matters even worst I come from a big family and out of 12 male first cousins I'm the oldest out of the 3 left not married or have children. So it's not as bad as you think it is. Just keep the hope alive. I wish that there was something personally that I could do for you but since we don;t know each other that's going to be rather hard to do.
Take care and good luck out there.
2007-02-24 21:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....What are you going to do about it, girlie? Your victim mentality does not serve you well AT ALL. And, this is NOT what you should be focusing on....Hate your job - well, are you looking to get a new on? Your friends all have families - that's more people for you to love. Guys want to get into your pants - tell them the goods aren't for sale. And, more importantly, try to figure out why you are attracting those sorts of men. Your life may be a joke right now, but honestly, it is exactly what you made it to be. You've got to get up, get out, and get on with your life. And remember, if you're not happy now, you are still going to be unhappy if you had a new job and a man. Happiness should be constant, regardles of your situation.
I am in the same boat as you, but damn it! I am thankful for my independence, freedom and I find life to be an adventure. Focus on what you have, not what you don't have - and you can take on my attitude. Plus, you will put yourself in a position to attract good things in your life!
I would recommend a book called: Big Girls Don't Whine....It's a Christian book, but its content can be applied to any woman who is complaining about their life.
2007-02-24 21:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by TwinkaTee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree about the career thing. I had 14 years in at my job and the @$$hole boss closes the doors and moves 90 miles away to "save some labor"(he went bankrupt 2 years later). The girlfriend/boyfriend thing I agree with that. Not all guys want in your pants.I dont..(yet). And finally your life is what you make of it just enjoy it.Someday it will end.
2007-02-24 21:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by petasucks101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO its not your just smart and wise . We all fall down but we get back up . So you get yourself up and try it again . Do not ever stop trying . Go back out and try again and believe in yourself ! Then you will have a great career and a man who is worth saying that's my man ! GOOD LUCK ! Just remember get up and try again !
2007-02-24 21:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to take the bull by the horns, girl.
change jobs
be happy for your friends
be proactive in finding the right kind of guys; go to different places, hang out with different people, adopt a different attitude.
2007-02-24 21:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by spandex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No honey you will be OK make friends you seem very sweet. guys are jerks. give me a buzz IM me and we can chat. But i am younger thrn you?
2007-02-24 21:02:09 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A least guys still want in your pants. Hang in there.
2007-02-24 21:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by mims323 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you haven't found the right man
2007-02-24 21:13:25 · answer #9 · answered by edward b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you like someone to talk to?
email me at phoenix_svce@yahoo.co.in
2007-02-24 21:03:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋