I've been single for about 2 years now (I'm about 30 now). Met girls here and there, gone out on plenty of dates, but I just can't seem to find the right girl. The girls I like always end up being taken, and I don't want to just settle for someone who I'm not crazy about -- that won't be fair to either of us. The problem is, when I'm on dates and the girl asks me how long I've been single for, I say over a year and girls are usually shocked to hear it. I'm good looking guy with a great job lined up after MBA (I'm a student currently), and a genuinely good guy with healthy ambition for the future and good character. I even made the "Hottest List" in school where girls vote for guys and vice-versa. But no girl at school ever flirts with me (then why did they vote for me?!) and I don't know where to meet people outside of bars. I'm looking to settle down with a girl with good character, smart, hot and a best-friend. I'm getting sick of being alone and feeling pathetic. What should I do?
2007-02-24 12:56:56 · 5 answers · asked by riddler 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I found my appeal increased enormously in my thirties.
I think when you get your MBA and have settled into your job you'll find that things improve quite noticably- give it two years.
This may seem long now, but you'll find that you will then be regarded as a serious prospect by women who might now not take you, a student, quite seriously.
I'd give up on bars as they are a complete waste of time and money.
Instead develop some interests which will make you more attractive (being able to cook well is a major plus for women); do a course in art history (you'll find the females much outnumber males on such courses) and study a language.
Enjoy doing this stuff as people are most appealing when they are happy.
2007-02-25 02:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do something to phsyically make myself look better...since i'm a girl i get into better shape...get a new haircut...dye my hair possibly...go tanning....or take myself to the caribbean. Last time I broke up with a boyfriend it was such a bad breakup that I got kick *** abs and my belly button pierced!!
Make yourself look physically better and you'll feel emotionally better!!!
2007-02-24 21:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by GCTA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like someone I would like my daughter to meet. You are in a hurry?? If you are patient, you will find your true love. In the meantime, go out, parties, dances, whatever, She is out there, just keep looking. Relax, time is on your side.
2007-02-24 21:02:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wanna hear the truth... u do sound pathetic. sorry butt you do. i find lots of girls in shopping malls
2007-02-24 21:01:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really like myself anyway, and I don't really like myself any better when I'm dating.
2007-02-24 21:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by bloodline_down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋