I Want a Boyfriend,I need a guy(other than my dad)that i can depend on and will always bethere for me!?!?!?!?!

Answer 1

ur asking us, why???

Answer 2

Wow now slow down missy. You may want a man but you dont want to just jump on the next man train coming through town. What I mean is you should be looking for someone who makes you happy, not just anyone. Just being with someone to have someone there can be more depressing than just being alone. Fairy tales can come true but in the real world you need to learn to depend on yourself. Even if you get married to a man who will let you stay home....well what if you are divorced or he dies and you have no education or work experience....to say the least you are up the creek. So what exaclty if your question? If you want to get a guy dont be so desperate and hold out for the one who makes you smile and dont be all ready and willing to jump in the sac or slap a ring on your finger. YOu have to be sure before you make decisions like this. So to cure you lonesome self get some friends that you enjoy doing things with and to cure the personal needs I reccommend relying on yourself. You dont want to be careless , it can end up in a disease where no man will want you. If you need anything else just let me know. Good Luck

Answer 3

You need yourself and you do not need to depend on anybody and what is wrong with your day, that is the best person to depend on because he knows and understand you the best and he will do things for your best interest. you sound like you need someone to lean on because you are hiding something from yourself. What you need to do is find the true you, be comfortable with you to the fact that when it comes to sharing yourself you will know what is the best for you and help you make the right decisions. Spend sometime with yourself learn yourself and be true to what you really no one can make you happy unless you happy within. When you do you will automatically attract the right guy and not just a desperate on. You will not have to ask that question on world wide web or statement because you really did not ask you just was pleading. That shows that you are lonely and desperate and will attract the wrong guy. And you deserve better.

Answer 4

Hi Caitlin, will you please back up a moment?? You want a boyfriend??---you need a boyfriend?? Where does all this come from?? Are you feeling a loss or a inadequacy?? Depend on a guy for what??? You need to get self confidence--rely on yourself first--no guy will offer as much support as you should have for yourself. Self reliance is a maturity issue. If you lack any of these things, you will grow up to be a clingy, whiney, baby--pesty and dependent on everyone around you---and no one will want to be around you after that. If you want to be attractive to a guy and have a NORMAL relationship--check yourself out--are you dressed nice and appropriately for your age, are you well groomed and look your age? Are you capable of having a conversation? Are you date material? Are you a fun person? You don't date or have guys for what you write about--you have them to share a fun life with--and grow together if nature intends it to be that way. Your self esteem should be high--like yourself, stand tall, be nice, be a dignified woman, good luck.

Answer 5

You need to learn to be there for yourself. A boyfriend isn't necessarily going to always be there and it's not very flattering to think someone's is with you because they want a security blanket, rather than because they think you are totally awesome.

Learn some independence and self confidence. Your parents will probably always be there for you, because they are parents. Beyond that we have friends and other family members for support during hard times. Although our significant other should also fall into that category (of someone who will be there for us) we should never seek out a partner solely for that reason.

Now...did you have a question?

Answer 6

If there's one thing I've learned in my twenty-eight years, it's this: You only ever have yourself to depend on. See, I'm a guy, and I know that there's no such thing as a guy you can depend on; I thought I was one of those, until I learned I was as human as any other guy. Still, I try to be dependable, but sometimes, it's just too much for me to handle. Still, I wish you luck in finding one, but I'm not sure they exist, but one in a million.

Answer 7

Dear Caitlin,

His age, how he gets along with his mother, experience,-(at least 40 and stable ;)- has a whole lot to do with this topic.

Your expectations of his emotionally maturity are, most likely, different. Be sure of who you are, what you want, and be yourself. Listen CAREFULLY to his words and actions and don't tolerate any abuse.

Dating can be fun and disastrous (TVs Blind Date)- but if the guy bombs catch the next bus.

Remember your esteem is not dependent on his
approval-OK ?

Answer 8

Get real there honey. You are the only one who you can really count on. Be good to yourself, and finish school. Get a job, and you will have pride in yourself. As soon as women realise that they don't NEED a man to fulfill their life, the happier they will be. Time to grow up, your not going to be daddy little girl forever.

Answer 9

Girl, that is what all women dream of.
All I can tell you is this. Depend on yourself. Get a good education. Get a great paying job. Take care of yourself.

Answer 10

honey this isn't a question or an answer
and one has to ask ones self - "why do I "need" someone to take care of me?"
you need to build up your self esteem, and learn to take care of yourself - the rest will come naturally and pretty soon, you'll meet someone out of the blue and you both will realize that you can't live without each other.....

Answer 11

Well im looking for a girl who can depend on me and will love me.. someone really serious! =)