alright so here's the story. i work with someone who lives in my development and lately out of work we've been...let's say getting close. what's the probability of this staying okay and not the least bit akward at work. if it helps, he's not going to work there anymore in a couple months. it's not like a want a relationship but more like a friends with benefits deal. somewhat benefits*. i don't know exactly his take on this situation but i think he might want to stay friends. who knows? what's your opinion on this? have you been in this kind of relationship? where did you guys draw the line? share your guts out.
2007-02-24 12:31:03 · 6 answers · asked by anna c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ps. this has been going on for about a month but the real intimacy is new
2007-02-24 12:36:53 · update #1
I was in a friends with benefits relationship for almost a year without one of us falling for the other one. Funny thing is, we knew each other for about 5 years before we started sleeping together. I really liked him and thought I would get myself so wrapped up in him, but it didn't work out that way. The sex was great and we had a wonderful friendship, but nothing went past sex and friendship. About two months ago I started a FWB relationship with a man I work with, someone I didn't have feelings for right off the bat. Now we are dateing. Neither one of us plans on leaving our job and things were never weird at work with us. I think it all boils down to the people carrying on the relationship, where they are in their lives, and the conditions yous set. Good luck with whatever yous decide.
2007-02-24 12:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by pearl_of_your_ocean 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Friends with benefits, someone always falls for the other one. If hes leaving your job in a few months, then no big deal. It should work out fine....
2007-02-24 12:35:04 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not going to happen. It will end badly no matter what. It will be ackward to the power of ten.
2007-03-03 12:49:11 · answer #3 · answered by Marius , II 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I can tell you is to make sure the two of you don't tell anyone your personal business.
2007-02-24 13:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
best advice is to not get involved...he'll want to posess you and how you gonna hide that? and besides, looks like you just want to get your itch scratched...look a bit further away for a scratcher, you'll be better off.
2007-02-24 12:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go for it you only live once!!!!!!!!
2007-03-04 08:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by doughboy0022000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋