Recently, my dad got a job offer to run a fitness business. Ever since he has been very busy, rarely coming home, and when he does, it always late at night. It seems he spends more time at his girlfriends house than here. I wish it were different. He says that I as his son come first but his girlfriend sees more of him. My mother isn't in my life, and I live with my grandparents. please help, I know he is doing this to get him and I a better life but if it means rarely seeing him, I'll pass.
2007-02-24 12:28:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would sit down with your dad and talk to him. Let him know ..that you know he's doing all of this to better both your lives...but tell him how hurt you are by not being able to see him often and how it bothers you that he's always with his g/friend but says You're the most important thing to him. Perhaps if he heard what you have to say, he'll make some changes...Either spending more time with you on his time off..or having you move in with him and his g/friend*
Just sit down and talk with him one on one* and ask him to Listen to what's really bothering you*
GOODLUCK*
2007-02-24 12:35:19 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why don't you go to your dad and tell him whats on your mind and tell him how you feel. If you don't got time to talk to him slip a note and tell him whats on your mind and tell him girlfriends will come and go in his life but just remember you got a son thats always here no matter what tell him life is to short tell him he's going to miss out on you! And after you talked to him and he dose not listen you will know that you told him how you feel so he can never say, but you never told me how you feel and you will say i tryed many times! You'll be able to walk away if any thing knowing you tryed! i really hope he listens to you and understands were your coming from!
2007-02-24 21:42:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your father exactly how you feel! If he runs a fitness place you should ask him if its cool that you come with him sumtimes. That way ya'll can hang out more. Try seeing if you can live with him or something.
2007-02-25 00:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by Andrea D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him or sumthing or you could start going to the fitness thing with him and work out or something. he needs to know how you feel so things can change
i hope things work out for you.... i have a horrible relationship with my mom and i wish it wasn't like that.
2007-02-24 20:47:50 · answer #4 · answered by Choconilla♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋