Im trying to better myself, Im told I might have a short amount of time to live because of the lessening activity in my lungs and kidneys.At the same time,My boyfriend of four months proposed valentines day and his best friend is in love with me.I feel confused.One of my best friends died the thirteenth and I had to go to her funeral Wednesday.She had helped me and my boyfriend get together.Ive lived in Tennessee for seven months now.I deal with chronic and manic depression plus on top of that being bipolar.I dont like to depend on meds for my mental state of mind.But I have to take meds for my health.My parents ,hmph wow they just dont care they tell me Im only being used for a deductible on taxs,so what can I say,Ive been abused since the age of two,been in and out with my stepdad because of my parents and my parents love to confuse me with one day being nice the next day physical or mentally abusive.Right now Im about to face death,well possibly, why is this all happening at once?
2007-02-24 12:19:56 · 4 answers · asked by Tink 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You need Jesus. I don't mean it sarcastically. Have you ever tried praying with all your heart? Try it.
As for you and your boyfreind, I do hope you are old enough, that is that you are legal. Imagine, if your best friend brought you and him together then maybe it was meant to be. I don't believe in karma and fate but things do happen for a reason, no? As for his friend...well that sucks for him. He has to know that you are your boyfriend's girlfriend and he should respect that. Don't make things awkward for him either, be kind and understanding. Try to talk things out with him and let him get his emotions out in the open. Somewhat of closer.
As for your parents, they are not good people, but they are your parents. One of the ten commandements is that you must honor your mother and father. Don't hate them, don't condemn them, don't judge them. You know that you should be independant from them since they use you in such a manner and it is wrong. You do not have to take it from them, there are places you can go to and things you can do. Don't exactly revolt on them but don't allow and set yourself up for their abuse.
i have been depressed before. I have been to a psychologist too. And it helped but what it all comes down to is yourself. Unless you choose to allow it to control you then it will. Remeber, it is all in your head. You can control it. I was offered the medication and I chose to get the psychotherapy (psychologist dude) and that was at the age of 13. So you can better yourself. I did and at that age you would think someone at that level of maturity would not be able to surpass it or control it. But, it's not impossible. You control your life.
If you say that you have a little bit of time left, then I suggest you live to the fullest. There is a quote that says that you should live everyday as if it were your last but still plan for tomorrow. Therefore, have fun, take a chance, but be smart about your everyday choices. If you believe in God and prayer then seek Him and pray. Read the Bible too.
I wish you the best and happiness. God bless you.
2007-02-24 12:42:13 · answer #1 · answered by Bizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a previous poster said, sh*t happens. Here's
something to think on. Just think of the number
of people on here who have no idea that today,
tomorrow, or next week, may be their last. You have time to prepare and make a difference.
Live each day to the fullest and you never know,
you might beat the odds. It's happened before.
Be prayin for ya!
2007-02-24 20:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by cheyenneman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Breathe, Relax, come to Islam, and Allah Swt will help you. You will not believe until you try.
ALLAHU MAA INNA ASULAKA BE RAHMAHTIKALATI WA KULLAHI SHAIN.
Peace be with you.
2007-02-24 20:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by Phlow 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
$#!+ happens, Make the best of what you can while you can.
2007-02-24 20:32:19 · answer #4 · answered by unknowncornball 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋