ok well im 18 and my girlfriends 16 and she was grounded for no reason AT ALL and i cant see her or talk to her
she asked her mom if she could come over today and she said no because her mom thinks she asks to come over too much but she doesnt and my mom doesnt care, she loves her. she comes over on the weekends and monday and thursday (only for 2 hrs on the weekdays)
well, my mom jsut doesnt want her to come over on the weekdays cuz she wants me to concentrate on my schoolwork and she told her mom that but her mom doesnt think thats the only reason, she thinks something happened to make my mom say that...like we had sex or something
my mom texted her mom and said that she keeps an eye on us and she is a wondeful person to be around and she couldnt think of me being with anyone better and keeping us apart will just make things worse because we'll go behind her back to see each other.
what can do or what can i say to her mom so she will let me see her?
2007-02-24 12:04:19 · 17 answers · asked by BoSox 007 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im just worried that her mom will tell her to break up with me or that she'll forget about me since i wont see her until monday even though she always tells me she can't live without me. i just dont wanna lose her.
2007-02-24 12:05:41 · update #1
She won't break up with you!! Been there!! This happened to me all the time when I was your age. There is nothing you can do or say.... you can just keep trying and maybe her mom will just give in. Tell her you just want to watch a movie... I know how you feel cuz u miss her.... but just imagine how good it is gonna feel when you see her on monday. sorry...
2007-02-24 12:09:09 · answer #1 · answered by ♥eLizAbEtH♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first of all it is totally her moms decision and you will not change her mind maybe her mom is just very overprotective of her. Your mom tried to do the right thing but she should of called instead. Just give her mom some time if you show her how good and patient you can be and wait for her daughter and she might come around. Dont worry she wont move on sounds like her mom wont let her date anyone.
2007-02-24 12:12:48 · answer #2 · answered by HOT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax, you need to make friends with her mom.
If this girl is the love of your life. You will have to deal with mom as long as you date her. Prove to her you are trustworthy and cherish her daughter. You need to try to see from her point of view.
If it is real it will always find a way to be. Relax You cant make someone love you or stay with you. Just become the sort of man that women fall in love with. Trustworthy kind respectful and honorable. This decisions you make now are going to affect the rest of your and your loves life. There is a book that is called boundaries in dating. by John Ma cloud. If you and your girlfriend would just read it . It would answer so many problems. Save you so muchhhhh heartache!!!!! Please Your mom and her mom are just trying to look out for the both of you God bless and take care!
2007-02-24 12:12:23 · answer #3 · answered by tennessee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your on the splendid song, you have wide-unfold who you're. i don't consider your mom, you have each and every superb to be truthful with your friends and kinfolk. people who settle for you're your actual friends, those that don't will the two by no skill settle on your sexuality or it is going to take time for them to settle for who you're. I got here out at 15, it replace into no basic highway yet i'm happy I did. I felt that i replace into being user-friendly with human beings. If human beings asked I advised them the reality, yet on a similar be conscious i presumed approximately my strikes. As for the fact approximately your sister's college years, i don't think of it is going to do something to her. I certainly have 3 different siblings (i'm interior the midsection), as quickly as I got here out it did not forestall there intense college years. My very final concept is that this, I had one in each and every of my desirable relationships in my existence for the period of my intense college years. i comprehend others that concealed at the back of and that they have got courting subject concerns.
2016-10-16 10:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would she trust you two over your house, and not her own when she could be watching both you at her house? It seems like her mom is a little whacky. The wohle situation just doesn't make sense.
2007-02-24 12:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by your wonderwall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dude if she forgets that she likes you because she doesnt come over for a week then she isnt worth being with
2007-02-24 12:08:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mate, i didn't read all of that, for the simple reason! i already new the answer!
ok relax, its not the end of world, and here a tip,
to keep that spark give her the gift of missing you!
works like a charm ,
2007-02-24 12:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by francis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you could go over her house instead? maybe the mom of the girl thinks that you both would be doing things at your house.
i think her mother may just be protective of her daughter so she doesnt think shes old enough to go over your house
2007-02-24 12:07:11 · answer #8 · answered by xcelticsbabee34x 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like they don't trust you just try to get them to trust you and see that your a decent guy who really loves his girlfriend and only wants the best for her but try to understand parents can be protect even if there's no need
2007-02-24 12:11:18 · answer #9 · answered by the jason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok if your together, but did you know that if you get intimate with her and someone finds out , you can go to jail. even if it was consensual . I have a friend that went to jail for that. I'm not trying to scare you, just letting you know.
2007-02-24 12:10:17 · answer #10 · answered by v k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋