I feel like everyone just hates me no matter what i do?

Question

ok so i try to be myself in front of people but it seems like they just tell me to get lost. Im a really energetic person and i like to mess around, its just part of me but i dont take things too far. My two real friends love it but everyone else hates it.

Well after being rejected alot ive been broken down. Isolating myself from people and trying to talk to people with little more laid back attitude. It doesn't work either i just get ignored or am told to get lost. i just feel everywhere i go i am hated for being me. i feel no one wants to be my friend and i don't know why. I feel completely abandoned, worthless and useless. I used to be very positive but this and other things have caused me to literally beat my self up on the inside. I just don't know what to do.

Also i have been dealing with some depression but have been getting help with that...but that might be making this a bit worse.

any help will be greatly appreciated
thanx

Answer 1

Love yourself. You are the best friend you will ever have. Remember that! Be good to yourself. Don't label yourself negatively (feeling worthless & useless). Stop beating yourself up! You are a valuable person. What you think & feel about yourself radiates outward. So if you like yourself, others may like you too. As long as your friends & family love you then that's all that matters. You don't have to be accepted by everyone. We can't all get along with everyone. That's just life. If people don't understand or accept you, it's their loss. Don't try to be something you're not. Just enjoy who you are.

Good luck!

You are not alone.

Love yourself & then you can not be depressed, you won't worry what people think. It's the answer to all your problems.

How do you learn to love yourself? Just do. Be good to yourself. Physically this means eating healthy, exercising & getting enough rest. Emotionally this means saying nice things to yourself, doing things you enjoy, treating yourself to nice things, being a good friend to yourself. It takes work but it can be done. I'm a negative self-deprecating person myself but I'm learning to be more positive & to love myself. Focus on your strengths not your weaknesses & accept yourself, flaws & all. Look for the beautiful things in life. Make the most of it.

Take care.

Answer 2

Hi Broken,
Need to know a little more about your personality. Do many people say the same thing about your personality? Like everyone is always saying this or that about me. Sometimes if many people are saying the same thing i would rely on that opinion especially if its cominf from many sources. If people are saying thats the way you are, well there is nothing you can say cuz thats the way you are whether you see it or not. I dont know you so not sure if this is the case. But if you do hear the same things over again I would start from that point and try and do something about it. And sometimes, like in this case of a comedian i heard of, his psych told him that he doesnt have to be "on" all the time. Learn to relax in some cases and be "on" in others. Well its just my opinion and hope it helps. And just so you know, God loves you just the way you are now, completely!!!

Answer 3

you have to love yourself before anyone can give you what you want and you should not predict what other people think of you this world is so F***** up you should know who your true friends are and the ones that are true you have no doubt as for your feelings you should see someone to talk about your problems i think its much deeper than just what others think about you i think it has to do allot of what you think about yourself and where your feelings really stem from you may even have depression or anxiety their are allot of different types of problems that could be a factor on how your feeling or the way you are perceiving the way things are or how you think they are just talk with someone close and mabey get some help i don't mean to sound rude or anything i just think you need to talk with someone with a history of knowledge that's all good luck and god bless
your depression may get worse if your on the wrong types of medication try having your Dr switch you

Answer 4

sometimes we get one or two nasty people being mean to us and it seems as if the whole world feels like that. maybe your mixing with the wrong people. they should love you for who you are. your 2 friends have gotten close to you and know who you are and know exactly where your coming from. i felt that way for most of my life but for the last 2 or 3 i got to know some completely different people and have so much more confidence in myself that people say I've changed. i don't know if that's true or that i can finally be the person i want to be/ really am. i still have my doubts cos i often say the wrong thing but i finally have the courage to say 'take me as you find me, i am who i am'. its taken me an awful long time. I'm nearly 45 and having the best times of my life. good luck to you.

Answer 5

Well hun{plz dont mind I call everyone that lol]
I personally have been evaluated for being depressed so I hope I can help.Dont think bad of yourself just because it seems that others do and they tell you to get lost.Those are people you do not need to be around.Talk about this with your two close friends because its better to have two close friends than a bunch of fakes.Try to find yourself as in why people tell you to get lost.Sooner or later,everything will turn around and youll see that people do understand and wont tell you to get lost, you just have to find the right people=]

Answer 6

try expanding your horizons, don't become a different person, just build on what you are now. try new things, learn about interesting subjects, do somthing a little crazy, hell get a motorcycle. pretty soon you'll find someone who shares your interests and what do ya know, you mind have another friend.

Answer 7

Write 2 essays. The first should be titled, "How my life would be different if I wasn't concerned with what other people thought."
The second should be a love letter to yourself...the love letter you wish someone would write to you. Be specific about what this person loves about you.

Answer 8

do what celebs does check into rehab