I'm having problems with a boy at school that I really like, as in I'm totally obsessed with him. I want to ask him to the dance, but I don't think my parents would understand...what should I do?
2007-02-24 11:21:35 · 12 answers · asked by Becca E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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you could ask this boy to the dance to go as friends and then see how it goes from there and tell your parents that you like this boy and you're just going as friends to this dance.
2007-02-24 11:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by xcelticsbabee34x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would your parents not understand? Parents never think those whom their children choose to date are good enough for their children. Learn this fact while you are young. Anyone you bring home to Mom and Dad will never be good enough for you in their eyes, ever. Thats what make you their little girl, and you don't want to lose that, so do your best not to disappoint them because they love you much more than any highschool pimple face will.
2007-02-24 19:28:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just come out and ask them if you can go to the dance with him. They might surprise you with the answer yes you may but be back at descent time.
2007-02-24 19:26:59 · answer #3 · answered by Connie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell your parents that you would want to go to the dance with that certain guy and you hope that they would understand you because you want to treasure that dance. promise them you'll be good girl!
2007-02-24 19:25:24 · answer #4 · answered by m_a_dancer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get over him,
being a stunning boy,
i hate it when girls obsess about me. so just ask smooth,
yes pay attention and flirt, but don't be groveling, its just disputing
as for your parents depends how old you are. best thing to do is too talk to your friends,
parents usually will turn that against you when your failing in class
good luck
=]
2007-02-24 19:26:39 · answer #5 · answered by francis 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have the same problem with my parents, i just tell them that im old enough and mature enough and that all my friends do so i should be aloud too.
2007-02-24 19:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by Janelle S. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be honest with your parents.Tell them your situation just like how you posted here.Parents don't like it when their children hide things from them.If they won't let you go to the dance with him, then go with your friends and just meet there.Just be friends and get to know him.
2007-02-24 19:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by MissRoyalT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well talk to the one u feel more comfident with for example mine is my dad but since my dad left the only left is mom but if u don't feel like they will get ur point then just do it and don't tell
2007-02-24 19:28:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk 2 ur rents first and create a way to make them understand
2007-02-24 19:25:49 · answer #9 · answered by mocktrialcutie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to your parents first, otherwise you'll look stupid when you go back to the guy and say, "never mind".
2007-02-24 19:26:36 · answer #10 · answered by MommaAng 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋