Ok, i am too afraid to talk to my dad about....love and boys. i am 12 and already got my 1st kiss and a LOT of boyfriends and i haven't told my dad and i told my mom. I am too afraid my dad will like yell at me, he thinks i am dadyy's lil girl and i think boys r gross but i already have some feelin me up. What do i do? do i keep a secret from my FATHER or tell him and hope 4 the best?
2007-02-24 11:17:11 · 10 answers · asked by I love Johny Huff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My mom didn't tell my dad. i told her not to.
2007-02-24 11:32:30 · update #1
depends on your dad.... im 14 and have been dating (well kinda) since 4th grade and my parents didnt find out until just recently when i got an older bf that i could only see if we actually went out together. i told my mom.... and ran away.... shes pissed at me and that dint go over well but now im living with my dad and hes fine with it and lets my bf come over almost every night. so you could try telling him but it could go either way.... you could get more freedom w. bfs or less so if your willing to risk it then go for it. oh... and hun.... your only 12.... be careful with the whole feeling you up stuff.... i guess its ok as long as it doesnt lead to something you dont want.... like a baby or stds or losing your virginity. just be careful for your own safety :)
2007-02-24 11:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by Choconilla♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um ok the first thing that popped out of that for me is YOU ARE 12 YEARS OLD!! WHY ARE BOYS FEELING YOU UP?? Do you even know what that is?? You havent developed yet pysically or mentally! Did you tell your mum that boys have 'felt you up'? What did she say? If you are too scared to talk to your dad then stop doing what you are doing, you are too young anyway! What do you mean by ALOT of boyfriends? Talk to your father
2007-02-24 22:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by buttafly_biattch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is a fine line between telling a parent something they need to know about, and keeping to yourself things which are none of his business. If there is no problem, and since you are not doing anything wrong - just normal girl stuff and starting to like on guys - why does he need to know all about it? And remember, if it does happen... yelling doesn't hurt! Heck, it's only yelling. Forget it.
2007-02-24 20:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be letting boys "feel you up" at 12. Your dad is right to be worried about you. Perhaps he senses you are heading for trouble and that is why he worries about you.
2007-02-24 19:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont know what love is at 12. if you dont feel comfortable with it then dont do it but im sure your mom already told him. and he probably wont be mad he would just think that you are growing up too fast!!!! it will all work out!!
2007-02-24 19:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by I LoVe ThE Oc fEr LiFe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell him , because if he find out accidently i think in the future he will find more reasons to be distrustful with you.
every dad would be jelous in this case, mainly because you are so young, but the truth always appears, so it's better that he knows this new through your mouth. :O)
2007-02-24 20:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by lalita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but you are still to young to experiment with sexual thing because what happens if you happen to get pregnant then you will have some thing to be afraid of I think you are way to young to be getting into boys right now stick with school it is better for you right now
2007-02-24 19:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you told your mom and she was cool about it so why not tell your dad. go ahead and hope for the best.
2007-02-24 19:40:59 · answer #8 · answered by Bubblez ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...it is your decision whether or not to tell him.
I think you might need to tell him...it might hurt him worse if he found out later somehow. he's your dad...he will love you no matter what you do. Good luck.
2007-02-24 19:56:16 · answer #9 · answered by imag4dream 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can tell your mom, you can tell your dad. Go for it.
2007-02-24 19:20:56 · answer #10 · answered by dmbgirlie93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋