2007-02-24 11:16:55 · 21 answers · asked by Panda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
see them both...
simple solution, and who ever is best, go for hin.
they won't get too mad, and if one does then you know not to be with him,
done n dusted
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2007-02-24 11:20:28 · answer #1 · answered by francis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This actually happened to me. Firstly, examine your relationship with both of them. Most people talk to someone they're interested in online, if thats the case with both of them, look at the conversation you have with them. If it's flirty and not pushing your limits (because some girls don't like sexual questions thrown at them online), then its good. If its just conversational - about the weather, school, work, politics, sports - and not too heated in a good way, then its bad. If you've met them, that's even better. If you can talk to them in public about anything (and I mean anything) and it can go on for a long time, it's good. If you can't hold a conversation, you both might be too nervous, or if you're bored with it, that's a bad sign. My advice is to wait it out for just a bit longer. One guy might back down but the one that wants you will stay. If you still need help, ask your friends or someone who knows them both (and knows about your feelings) which one they think is right for you. But if they do get mad or jealous, well that's life and it happens all the time and they will eventually get over it. Just watchout for that jealous or mad one, if they do something rash - report it to someone.
2007-02-24 11:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough question, but even better, what makes you like one over the other......
I would hate to see any fighting or jealousy over your pick, so why do you find it necessary to pick one. Are they both friends of yours and have relationships with you?
If I were in your situation, I wouldn't pick one because I wouldn't lead two guys on at the same time, it isn't fair to them and you don't need two men. I might find some qualities attractive in one, while the other one has just as good qualities, different strengths and weaknesses. Unless I were committed to marrying both men, I would not be in your situation, you brought it on your self.
2007-02-24 11:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that ever happens 2 simple steps
1.hang out with the one thats jelous for a while.
2. tell them that its fine and dont be jelous because i like you a lot to
(i have been in the same area)
2007-02-24 11:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by Marina S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be single. Let them both like you. If you end up with one of them you will create a problem. So why bother.
2007-02-24 11:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by MissRoyalT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in fear of someone or what they may do is that person for you .? go for the more chilled guy ,life is to short to worry without reason Good luck girl.
2007-02-24 11:22:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with both of them and see which one you like better. Thats what adults do.
2007-02-24 11:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by gabriel b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should so get to know them and see what they are like! Ask yourself what do you want out of a man, and put them to the test.
2007-02-24 11:20:12 · answer #8 · answered by Sgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing let the better man do the right thing, determining who should actually be with. Don't obsess, well I know you will but w/e.
2007-02-24 11:20:19 · answer #9 · answered by hello1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with both of them(seperately) and decide which one you like better.
2007-02-24 11:21:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋