Why do men cheat?

Question

Why do men cheat?
I just want to know why men cheat? I hate when they cheat my boyfriend cheated on me 3 times i am still with him. but why do they cheat?

Answer 1

My husband says because women let them! I somewhat agree. I feel like men usually cheat when their unsatisfied with the relationship they are in. My husband cheated on his ex with over 20 women, she caught him 3 times out of 20! That puts stock in the phrase "for every rat you see there are 50 you don't see"! He explains it like he was looking for better and at the same time hoping to get caught so she would leave him (men hate being the bad guy too!). Well he finally met me and offcially dumped her! Get this, they were together 3 yrs and never engaged, we were married after a year, engaged in 6 months. My point is if you're being cheated on your probably ms. rightnow and not ms. right! Stand up to him and leave him for good! Don't let him waste anymore of your time!

Answer 2

I can only speak for myself. Me at this moment I'm in commited relationship with a great woman. If I cheated on her it would not be because of sex because we have great sex together and we have it often and every time is like the first time. I'd probably cheat on her if another woman came along that had something else to offer me, something my girlfriend can't, such as higher status in society, or wealth, but even then I'd have to think about it hard. I used to cheat on all my previous relationships for no basic reason, just because I could and because I was stupid. Now that I have matured I realize that sex should be special and I enjoy it more if I know the person better than I would in a one night stand situation. i noticed also that I perform like a stud if i know the woman better than i would with a girl i just met( I worry that the condom will break, Std's, and things like that, so i ejaculate quicker maybe my way of telling myself to get it over quick). So now I do not cheat.