I like this guy and his best mate, and i think his best mate likes me cause he wont stop calling and he held my hand yesterday! He keeps asking me questions like what are your 5 favourite guys, and i tell him that himself and his friend are in it, and they ask me what i'd say if he asked me out, and if i'd snog any of them? Is this a big game so they can make a fool off me in school? Or do they want to know? I told them i would snog them for laughs, and i would go out with them, im getting scared they're gonna tell peeps nd im going to get a bad rep cause their popular...Is this all a mistake? I'm so confused!
when i asked his top 5 girls, he said he couldn't tell me...does he like me...or is he trying to gather information so he can tell people and let it backfire in my face, should i regret all the things i said and say i was playing around and i wouldn't snog them for laughs?
We're 14 and in high school
2007-02-24 11:08:46 · 17 answers · asked by CompleteCreation90 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
14? I think he might like u. don't back out now, cuz u already told him those things.
2007-02-24 11:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by Forrest Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Massive problem for sure. Have them both and juggle. Either they'll find out and everything will be destroyed, or they'll propose a threesome.
Alternatively, buy a small tree and plant it in their honour at a local park. Make a shrine, complete with eternal flames and photos, and spend daylight hours meditating in the long, cool shadow it casts. Write a song and call it "Maybe I would kiss u depnds if im on ur list of best girlz or whteva and maybe i wouldnt sng u fr laughs" feat. you.
2007-02-24 11:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all what in the world is SNOG. If it's a secret word for sex or anything close to sex don't be stupid. There is no way that you can SNOG two guys at the same time. Especially if they know each other.
2007-02-24 11:18:22 · answer #3 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be careful it sounds like they may all be talking about you. Dont give them all the pleasure of getting a snog from you this will just make sure they spread your name round in a bad way. Play it cool for awhile dont be so keen to show you like him talk to him but let him do the running for awhile, if he does like you he will soon make it clear and hopefully without all his friends around..
2007-02-24 11:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by BigMomma2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, I think you are thinking like a girl, but you have to remember, these are guys and they don't think like you. I'm a guy, we don't bullcrap like that. We might try to be sneaky but we just aren't good at it. I think he wants to know who you think the 5 hottest guys are or what not, because he wants to see if he might relate to any of them. He's not confident enough to tell you he likes you because he fears rejection, so he's in an obviously subtle way, asking you to identify him first, so he knows he has a shot. Maybe he want to determine if you like his friend over him, etc. Thats why he wont give you an answer, because in so doing he puts himself on the line, revealing that he likes you first, and that is too much of a risk. So, he's waiting for you to give an answer, and then he'll make a move. Maybe I over thunk this one, but I think there could be a truth to this. At least that is how it appears to me.
2007-02-24 11:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear. This is not a huge problem. There are wars and genocide and starvation in the world.
But seriously, this is what everyone goes through at the beginning of their sexual life: wondering whether people actually fancy them or just want to make fun of them.
Truth is, you are playing games as much as they are. If you really want to know, you should let them KNOW that you want to know. Don't be afraid of being made a fool of, because if they want to do that then they are idiots who you wouldn't want to know anyway.
2007-02-24 11:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by AlexChappel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you one thing ok. If this guy is trying to do this to you and he actually tells everyone (It's happened to me before) you either knock the **** out of him or you could take it and when you hear about it just cover it up by laughing automatically and say "He actually believed that" it will go away as soon as it came!!!
2007-02-24 11:17:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that the only way he would find out if you would go out with him is by him asking?
And say If you want to know if I would kiss you then try and see what happens?
2007-02-24 11:13:51 · answer #8 · answered by scragette2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart concentrate on ur studies, 14 is too young for all the monkey business, trust me u have the whole time to do watever with boys, just wait till u grow up a BIT.
2007-02-24 11:20:11 · answer #9 · answered by gal-next-dr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful, don't let anybody make a fool of you. it sounds like he's not genuine. Last of all don't snog anybody for laughs or you'll get a bad name for yourself and they stick forever
2007-02-24 11:15:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't regret if they do tell people because that just means they are jerks. i would gave it about 3 days and if nothings been said then he does like you. and he was just asking you those questions to find out if you like him.
2007-02-24 11:20:14 · answer #11 · answered by xcrazyx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋